LIKES

• sex with feelings
• tenderness, physical intimacy
• holding someone down (but not particularly restraints)
• sensory overload/overstimulation, multiple orgasms, begging, desperation
• body worship, praise kink
• men who get off on giving oral
• switches, big masc types getting fucked
• one partner teaching the other what they like/something new
• friendly competition in sex
• marking, bruising, hair pulling (all consensual)
• sex pollen/fuck or suffer consequences/a/b/o but only when it's clear it's consensual/all parties are into it
• fingering, penetration in general
• large cocks
• messy sex, come play, come inflation

HARD NO

• breathplay
• uneven power dynamics, D/s dynamics, daddy/mommy kink, incest
• ageplay/infantilization
• scat/piss/blood/emeto/vore/cannibalism
• dubcon/noncon
• humiliation
• bestiality
• pregnancy of any kind (dirty talk abt breeding is fine), body modification