• Diamond Self (the real me, without the filter of fear)
      • self-affirmations
      • networking
          • imagine that person is already your best friend
          • be completely focused and present
          • be generous and complimentry
      • flirting
        • eye contact/smile/say hi
        • say his name
        • ask open-ended questions
        • ask for help
  • Positive Paranoia
      • don't assume the negitive
  • Positive Shaping Work
      • knowing what you want and asking for it
  • Deadly Dating Patterns & Fixes
      • Fantasy Relationship
          • ben, asmus,
      • Hermit
          • hides and avoids contact
      • Fade Away
          • not giving out feminine signals, inside my own head instead of being fully present
      • Just Buddies
          • not flirting, feminine or sensual
      • Grass is Greener
          • thinking and not doing
  • Habits of Living Love
  • DUDS and STUDS
  • love intentions
      • I want a man who will be my best friend
  • love goals
      • create greater self-esteem,deservedness and self-love
      • break out of deadly dating patterns
      • meet someone who has tremendous potential for a love relationship
    • declare love for each other
      • marry/make a lifetime commitment to live out your dreams together
  • Tough Tender Loving Care
      • being chosen and wanted
      • receiving physical affection
      • getting constructive criticsm
      • encouraged to play
      • being understood
dec 6 2010 ∞
dec 8 2010 +