his priorities = m, my priorities = e, both = m+e

• family (m+e)
• friends (m+e)
• affordability (m+e)
• good music / art scene (e)
• weather - no cold and rain! (e)
• close to the beach (m+e)
• accessability (things to do around the city, parking, etc.) (m+e)
• sports teams we can support (m)
• good mexican food (m)
• comic con! (e)