since this too much to put in one list, i'm making one separate list for these things.

socializing is difficult and scary, and this is because of a few things different things.

i am easily anxious, dependant of the opinion of others, and i black out during social interaction. so i'd like to make a disclaimer:

• please don't ignore me when you're mad at me! if you need a break to cool off, please say so (it can really be as simple as saying "i need a time out"). i get very anxious when people stop replying to me because i've been taught that silence = i made a mistake. i'm trying to overcome that, but i need your help. thank you
• if i do something to hurt you, you need to tell me. i don't appreciate talking about me behind my back and/or vagueing about me due to paranoia