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Male, 29, London, overly self aware, pseudo intelligent, densely ironic,

My Listography Philosophy (rhymes)- I create lists which I myself want to see in other people's listography. I also like lists which detail the emotion, feelings, thoughts and experiences of someone rather than the tangible for it is what goes on in our head which makes truly unique.

bookmarks:
C travel (50 States)
listography GIVE A GIFT OF MEMORIES
FAVORITE LISTOGRAPHY MENTIONS
IMPORTANT NOTICES
Tilly wishlist (fountain pen)
  • first day - roomie
    • they paired me well
    • too well...
    • wonder if meeting someone so out of your comfort zone would have been more interesting OR more destructive...
    • turns out to be very quiet
    • I think I may be more of a nusciance than a benefit to him.
    • distinct lack of concern towards how he is perceived on the outside - freakishly little
    • had a few disagreements
    • hates small talk enough to be (unintentionally?) rude to me :(
  • first day - garden party
    • pizza/soda
    • met a few people
    • stuck around with roomie and handful of people
    • perhaps copying the persona of socialable people would have worked..but to what ends
  • first day - boat party
    • food ok
    • not great social environment due to NOISE OF THE MUSIC
    • began raining
    • spent 50% of time alone not talking, :/ other 50% was ok though only with people i had already met or hideous dancing, being ironic but it was lost on everyone. give up being ironic or meet others who share same sensibility
    • overwhelming sense to give up with the pointless small talk its all done on the perception of people via looks. i dont approach people who im unsure of and i guess everyone else does too...
  • kitchen people
    • ncie bunch of people
    • good mix
    • socialising is tough since i feel inadquant about my cooking skills due to never really being shown how...
    • drinking seems to make a large part of the social events, but I lack the ability to drink :<
    • everyone has buddied off or gone into another kitchen.
    • only one person who i can relate to easily
  • first meeting with tutorial group
    • seem nice enough
    • amazing diversity
    • find it hard to relate
    • moderate characters
    • too serious for me or they need to open up a bit?
    • definite lack of bonding
  • lectures
    • not falling asleep after 10 mins is hard
    • falling behind is going to make up the rest of my life
    • few people care
    • have a gang woooo, no more awkward seat finding yay
    • just don't work for me
    • at least 40% dont go and do perfectly fine...
  • First group project
    • fractured group
    • me making hilarious comments - not productive
    • feel that 2 sub groups forming!!! me as the bridge, belonging to no group :(
    • Amazing fun, excellent experience, everyone opened up!!
    • final producted failed epically, though not waste of time
  • tutorial sessions
    • waste of time for most
    • only ever talking
    • gathering of the group is much fun
    • opportunity to socialize
    • tutors always attempt for you to understand it yourself - no thanks..
  • New gang
    • solves seating problems and people to lunch with
    • always sharing food - most amazing thing ever
    • shared interests and levels of maturity (finding free food)
    • some external socialising
    • not solid, but together
    • everyone likes (and can talk to) everyone else!!
    • love eating together and mixing it up with different cafes (mech eng, EEE, RSM, SAF)
  • the halls of residence
    • well kitted out
    • little mixing going on
    • strongest groups are those which are lucky enough to be alike and live close by.
    • Finding it hard to converse with others
    • found one person of the same ethnicity woop woop - spoke for hours
    • people stick to their floors
    • i know and speak to 3 out of the 17 people who live in my hall and do my course :( i know of at least 5 others
    • made one hall friend due no mutual interests, no one else
  • best friend's friends
    • amazing people - all of them
    • fitted right in without much effort
    • mainly bond through shared lack of maturity and common home place (LONDON!!)
    • tolerate his personality and find it endearing
    • some met through snooker
    • small circle but already awkward with reluctant love interest..lol
oct 3 2009 ∞
mar 9 2010 +