i used this https://listography.com/dnfi as a reference for mines, i liked a lot of the stuff but other things they said were problematic (ie ; think polyamorous or aro/ace cishets are lgbt. they're not, stop including cishets in queer spaces. aro/ace people aren't inherently queer either if your cis & straight but you don't always feel romantic attraction that doesn't make you queer.) and other stuff that just didnt rlly fit into my dni if you feel the same as me, feel free to link this in your dnis!!