• racist, antisemitic, islamophobic, xenophobic, zionist, misogynistic, lgbtphobic, fatphobic, ableist
• right winge or neutral/centralist
• against blm, land back, & other such movements
• fujoshi/fundashi, fetishize mlm/wlw relationships
• proshippers/anti-antis, or neutral
• ship real people
• against any religion, this includes christianity
• you are white, cis, het, neurotypical, able-bodied or etc and are ok with being friends with people who are unjust to minority groups
• say slurs you can't reclaim or are okay with being friends with people who do so
• 'reclaim' slurs without any research & use them lightly.
• try to reclaim the r slur

• co-opt black terms. (anti- , -fishing, non- & etc)
• use aave (african-american vernacular english) as a non-black person. (carrds for aave if youre uneducated about it; https://aavenb.carrd.co/ https://aaveappropriation.carrd.co/)

note that i am not black, ask actual black people about things like this, not me. im only providing resources for those who may need it

• use 'nb' to refer to nonbinary people, nby, nbry, or enby are better alternatives, use what u and other ppl are comfy with!
• refer to autistic people as 'people with autism' or anything along the lines of that
• use terms like folx or womxn

• on subtwts like edtwt, shtwt or any twt that encourages anti-recovery or harm to yourself/other people
• if youre on mnsfwtwt, maptwt, or any other form/anything similar to these
• poppytwt or mcytnsfwtwt, or just any subtwt that draws porn of content creators or minors (especially minor content creators)

i dont care if nsfw or 18+ accs interact or follow me in general just dont be weird towards me since im a minor

• are an exclusionist
• against xenogenders or neopronouns
• you believe pronouns = gender. eg: believe lesbians can't use he/him & etc.
• support mspec 'lesbians'/male 'lesbians', mspec gays, lesbian boy/"boysbian", bi lesbian, etc
• don't support people who go by unlabeled or think pansexuality, omni, etc are biphobic, or think bisexuality is transphobic.
• use the toothpaste flag(s)
• think polyamorous or aro/ace cishets aren't apart of the lgbtq+, theyre as queer as the rest of us get off ur high horse calling them the same as straihts bitch

• against self-diagnosing )with extensive research)
• don't include disabled people in your activism
• use fancy fonts in your account
• demonize cluster b disorders. say things like 'narcissistic abuse', use psychopath/sociopath in derogatory ways or etc
• infantilize or romanticize any illnesses or disorders in any way
• refer to neurodivergent/disabled people as 'special' or 'differently abled'
• think that because you can't see the disability it "isn't that bad" mental & invisible disabilities are just as valid
• use disorders/disabilities as insults/descriptors eg: 'this weather is so bipolar', 'i'm so ocd about that', 'they're blind to the facts', 'tone-deaf' & etc
• 'endogenic' system or a supporter
• refuse to use tone tags and/or mock them ...

• are a transmedicalist, terf, radfem or in general agree with any feminist takes that claim trans women aren't women or feminism that includes trans men
• you believe you must have gender dysphoria to be trans. look up gender in-congruence read something
• misgender trans people on purpose because they're bad people
• trans people who ignore transmisogyny or make it about themselves
• think misandry, transmisandry, or systematic prejudice against men in general exists
• speak over transfems as a transmasc
• sexualize intersex and transfems
• use the word futa
• ask intersex ppl abt their genitals jsut stop its weird stop
• ask people "whats in your pants!!" even as a joke

(tw: mentions of incest, pedophilia, csa/sa, nsfw & rape.)

• justify sexualization of minors in media or not
• believe fiction does not affect reality
• joke about/justify incest in any form. including families who aren't blood-related. (step-siblings, adopted family, etc)
• think that just because you are a csa survivor you are allowed to sexualize/consume porn content of minors in media as a 'coping mechanism'
• into/support ddlg or sexualize age-regression
• call people/children lolis or shotas
• support kink being at pride
• shame/don't respect sex workers, refer 2 sex workers as prostitutes, whores or sl//ts, etc
• into/support being into 'consensual' non consensual, trauma play or anything of th...