- absorb indiscriminately criticism --> projection issue 
 
    - blame themselves for everything 
 
    - impostor syndrome 
 
    - struggle to stand-up for themselves --> fear of being disliked or labeled as something 
 
    - speak to themselves very disparagingly --> tend to have a very verbally inner abusive voice 
 
    - assume others are thinking poorly of them --> because a very critical parenting, as our parents were our first model how the world works, will make us assume that everyone else is thinking very critical of us 
 
    - compare themselves to others --> when you have low self-esteem often your psychological habits are geared towards improving your self-esteem and not self-compassion. 
 
  
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