• blame shift
  • emphasize perfection
  • habitual thinking
  • judgment
  • letting emotions control decisions
  • multitask
  • overconfidence
  • overlook self care
  • reject self-reflection
  • resist change
  • take the easy way out
dec 17 2024 ∞
dec 17 2024 +
  • control emotions
  • crate routine
  • excellent observers
  • excellent problem solvers
  • often put others before themselves
  • prepared
  • rarely ask for help
  • struggle with letting go
dec 11 2024 ∞
dec 11 2024 +
  • 750 words
  • bake cookies
  • emails
  • find budget sheets
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • plan blog
  • read
  • write 'engagement party'
dec 17 2024 ∞
dec 17 2024 +
  • air fryers
  • concert tickets
  • eating out at restaurants (or fast food)
  • family vacations
  • farmer markets
  • fast food meals
  • groceries
  • home ownership
  • microwaves
  • pet ownership
  • second hand clothing and thrift stores
  • teeth cleanings/ dentistry
dec 12 2024 ∞
dec 12 2024 +
  • everyone knows that
  • i told you so
  • i wouldn't do that if i were you
  • i'm just being honest
  • just to play devil's advocate
  • this is just who i am
  • why can't you take a joke
  • why do you care so much
  • you don't get it
  • you look tired
dec 17 2024 ∞
dec 17 2024 +
  • acceptance to odu's mfa program (thought they were punking me)
  • dancing to the oriental swing and singing the last verse in english
  • first flight to korea
  • me and allen's first kiss
  • me and billy's first kiss
  • me and holly's sat. late night dance
  • me and jun's first blues dance at jeju swing camp
  • me and max's first kiss (after we listened to robert glasper)
  • the final morning of vona (i'm writing this for your sisters, cousings, and nieces)
  • the first time I picked up Chincha and he licked my face - and I fell deeply in love
  • the first time preston held me (bliss and safety)
  • the mfa commencement (drunk times)
may 13 2024 ∞
jun 9 2024 +