• binge a show
  • drink tea
  • go to the gym
  • listen to music
  • listen to podcasts
  • nothing
  • prepare a great meal
  • stare at the wall
  • take a long bath
  • take long walks
  • write
jan 2 2026 ∞
jan 2 2026 +
  • acts of kindness
  • family's problems
  • financial situation
  • good deeds
  • long-term goals
  • love life
  • next move
  • personal struggles
  • spiritual practices
dec 28 2025 ∞
dec 28 2025 +
  • going to the ER for a blood transfusion
  • my father's passing
  • not getting into college
  • pregnancy
  • sexual assualt
  • sleep deprivation
  • the moment my mother threw a bottle of wine at me
  • when my brother died
dec 22 2025 ∞
dec 22 2025 +
  • ambitious
  • analytical
  • artistic
  • creative
  • curious
  • forward-looking
  • honest about the process
  • introspective
  • methodical
  • open to coaching
  • organized
  • reflective
  • resilient
dec 18 2025 ∞
dec 18 2025 +
  • anxious
  • cautious
  • creative
  • depressed
  • dreamy
  • guilty
  • sad
  • scattered
  • studious
  • visual
dec 16 2025 ∞
dec 16 2025 +
  • enough about you, let's talk about me
  • i deserve better
  • i did all of this for you
  • i don't have time for this
  • if you really cared about me, you'd....
  • that's not my problem
  • that's who i am
  • why aren't you doing this for me
  • you're lucky to have me
  • you're too sensitive
dec 10 2025 ∞
dec 11 2025 +
  • body
  • consent
  • deal breakers
  • digital availability
  • emotional labor
  • energy
  • lending
  • money
  • privacy
  • respectful speech
  • time
  • values
  • work life cut off
dec 29 2025 ∞
dec 29 2025 +
  • editing my novella
  • hanging out with my cat
  • long walks
  • preparing for interviews
  • re-starting my substack
  • reading a romance novel
  • resting as my christmas present
  • writing my novel
dec 24 2025 ∞
dec 24 2025 +
  • apple cake
  • caramel apple sheet cake
  • dutch apple pie squares
  • easy apple crisp with vanilla cream
  • fall brown cupcakes
  • no bake pumpkin cheesecake
  • pecan pie brownies
  • puff pastry apple tart
  • pumpkin cinnamon rolls
  • pumpkin cookies with caramel
  • pumpkin crunch cake
  • pumpkin dump cake
  • turkey brownie cupcakes
dec 19 2025 ∞
dec 19 2025 +
  • audition (katie kita-mura)
  • flash (david szalay)
  • flashlight (susan choi)
  • the land in winter (andrew miller)
  • the loneliness of sonia and sunny (kiran desai)
  • the rest of our lives (ben markovita)
dec 17 2025 ∞
dec 17 2025 +
  • "i like bougie activities" -- completely different value system
  • "i like to travel/ passports needed" - reeks of classcism and poverty shaming. not everyone can travel and doesn't determine the worth and value of the friendship. looking more for a travel partner.
  • "i want friends under 40" - i'm over 40.
  • "now that i'm too old for the club, i like brunch and travel" - as someone who's more invested in activities, interests aren't as important in spending time with others.
  • aquarius north nodes - as a leo sun, i'm not the right person in this lfietime
  • low maintanence friends/ meme friends/ text friends - not what i'm looking for in friendship.
  • mentions a man in the first three sentences (boy mom, wife, fiancee, respect my relationship) - male identified, likely use...
dec 14 2025 ∞
dec 14 2025 +
  • aloha
  • b-ripp
  • ballsegna
  • big al's fredo
  • eve's garden
  • girl next door
  • hot chick
  • indy 6er
  • party fowl
  • pasto mambo
dec 11 2025 ∞
dec 11 2025 +
  • being employed
  • being proud of my projects
  • christmas cartoons
  • excitement while writing
  • full paychecks
  • not thinking about calories
  • reading full books
  • reading the newspaper
  • running a mile in seven minutes
  • structure of the work day
  • summer walks
nov 19 2025 ∞
nov 19 2025 +
  • chaotic
  • depressing
  • difficult
  • draining
  • messy
  • sad
dec 30 2025 ∞
dec 30 2025 +
  • i appreciate your honesty
  • i understand how you feel
  • i wish you the best
  • i'll think about that
  • i'm at peace with my choices
  • i'm proud of how far i've come
  • let me think about a better way to say that
  • let's agree to disagree
  • thank you for your perspective
  • that doesn't work for me
dec 27 2025 ∞
dec 27 2025 +
  • appreciate the little things in life
  • chincha loves you
  • i have innate worth
  • relief will come at some point in time
  • there have been good times in the past
  • there will be more to life
  • this is temporary
dec 20 2025 ∞
dec 20 2025 +
  • audiobooks
  • digital collections
  • documentaries
  • gentle stretching
  • hiring cafe
  • journaling
  • phone photography
  • podcasts
  • restorative yoga
  • voice notes
dec 15 2025 ∞
dec 15 2025 +
  • have to be an expert
  • have to be older
  • have to write essays
  • need an interesting life
  • no navel gazing
  • research and reporting
  • trauma porn
dec 12 2025 ∞
dec 12 2025 +
  • abundant food
  • chincha
  • dance
  • education
  • having healthy hair
  • my apartment
  • rest
  • savings
  • where i live
  • writing
nov 27 2025 ∞
nov 27 2025 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +