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  • artistic
  • artistic
  • committed
  • creative
  • generous
  • healing
  • multi-lingual
  • sensitive
  • understanding
  • wanderlust
  • weak
  • youthful
oct 28 2025 ∞
oct 28 2025 +
  • genuinely kind
  • good listener
  • makes the first move
  • mirrors body language
  • natural empathy
  • not afraid to show flaws
  • remembers names
  • respect personal space
oct 23 2025 ∞
oct 23 2025 +
  • always in comfort zone
  • always the listener, rarely the talker
  • designated problem solver
  • feel you're not fun enough friend
  • not the first choice for fun plans
  • predictable social calender
  • shy away from sharing opinions
oct 15 2025 ∞
oct 15 2025 +
  • i deserve respect
  • i don't appreciate that
  • i hope you find peace
  • i think you're better than this
  • that's not okay with me
  • what are you trying to achieve with this
  • why would you say that?
  • your words don't define me
oct 12 2025 ∞
oct 12 2025 +
  • do you have family around here
  • do you know that...
  • have you eaten yet
  • how did you two meet
  • how long have you lived here
  • how's the weather treating you
  • what church did you attend
  • what do you do
  • what school did you go to
  • where are you from
sep 22 2025 ∞
sep 22 2025 +
  • budget analyst
  • business operations specialist
  • compensation and benefits manager
  • digital designer
  • economist
  • editor
  • financial examiner
  • logistician
  • personal financial advisor
  • psychologist
  • technical writer
  • web developer
sep 18 2025 ∞
sep 18 2025 +
  • access to good education
  • access to healthcare
  • clean and safe neighborhoods
  • clothing
  • current technology
  • downtime
  • emotional support
  • mental support
  • nutritious food
  • personal care items
  • reliable transportation
  • stable housing
  • supportive networks
sep 15 2025 ∞
sep 15 2025 +
  • fear street: prom queen (rl stine)
  • frankenstein (mary shelley)
  • klara and the sun (kazew ishiguiro)
  • my oxford year (julia whelay)
  • people we meet on vacation (emily henry)
  • regretting you (colleen hoover)
  • the housemaid (fried mcfadden)
  • the running man (stephen king)
  • wicked: for good company (gregory maquire)
sep 11 2025 ∞
sep 11 2025 +
  • chasing anyone
  • dim their light for anyone
  • emotional labor
  • explain our hair choices
  • over explain themselves
  • prioritize capitalism over mental health
  • settle for struggle love
  • suffer in silence
  • teach non black people about systemic racism
  • waste their energy on drama
apr 22 2025 ∞
apr 22 2025 +
  • ask real questions -- and wait for the answer
  • clear and gentle boundaries
  • give credit and carry blame
  • keep a soft heart with spine
  • keep ormoises when no one's checking
  • leave places better than when you found them
  • pain creates empathy
  • people are easier around you
  • practice craft when no one's grading you
  • remember small details
oct 26 2025 ∞
oct 26 2025 +
  • a cure for heartache (soulfreakah)
  • elevator (monique bingham, louie vega)
  • feel your touch (jimpster)
  • music and wine - speakeasy mix (blue sixx)
  • same thing (maiya james/ osunlade)
  • sarge (krackazat)
  • searching (remix) (simon sez/ roy ayer)
  • solid ground - fred everything lazy dub (atnarko, nica brooke)
  • take me back (kings of tomorrow/ april jones)
  • what a feeling! (samo)
oct 17 2025 ∞
oct 17 2025 +
  • celebrate without envy
  • don't over-explain themselves
  • gracefully manage emotions
  • listen more than you talk
  • master boundaries
  • quiet confidence
  • speak with intention
oct 13 2025 ∞
oct 13 2025 +
  • alcohol
  • chronic stress
  • lack of connections
  • lack of rest
  • low vitamin d
  • messy home
  • no exercise
  • no time for outdoors
  • poor nutition
  • poor sleep
  • poverty
  • substance abuse
oct 5 2025 ∞
oct 5 2025 +
  • it's a love story (annabel monanghas)
  • my best friend's honeymoon (meryl wilsner)
  • one golden summer (carley fortune)
  • problematic summer romance (ali hazelwood)
  • sounds like love (ashley poston)
  • the love haters (katherine center)
  • the re-write (lizzie damilola)
  • til summer do us part (megan quinn)
  • when javi dumped mari (mia sosa)
  • winging it with you (chip pons)
sep 19 2025 ∞
sep 19 2025 +
  • backwoods
  • buttermilk
  • butterscotch
  • chocolate mergine
  • coconut
  • malborough
  • mock apple
  • possum
  • shaker lemon
  • shoofly pie
  • sour cream raisin
  • sugar cream
  • vinegar
  • water
  • white potato
sep 16 2025 ∞
sep 16 2025 +
  • boredom
  • challenges
  • disagreements
  • dumb people
  • fairness
  • going wrong
  • not getting credit
  • rudeness
  • small talk
  • waiting in line
  • weather
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sep 12 2025 ∞
sep 12 2025 +
  • not attend kids' games
  • put babies to sleep facedown
  • put the sun in baby's cups
  • send kids to buy products alone
  • shame kids for expressing emotion
  • sleep in laundry baskets
  • use beverages for teething
sep 9 2025 ∞
sep 9 2025 +
  • animation
  • anything between 1945 and 1984
  • art critiques
  • city life
  • dance
  • dreamscapes
  • harlem reniassance
  • hyperrealism
  • media that's award winning but low rates
  • musical bios
  • philosophy
  • realistic depictions of sex
  • surreal
  • young adult genre
aug 29 2025 ∞
aug 29 2025 +
  • affairs
  • assualt
  • bands
  • blackface
  • clothing
  • community
  • competition
  • dance crushes
  • exchanges
  • exclusion
  • fatphobia
  • film
  • flights
  • harrassment
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +
  • all neon
  • designer knockoffs
  • distressed jeans
  • embellished fast fashion
  • logos
  • trend dupes
  • trendy micro accessories
oct 27 2025 ∞
oct 27 2025 +
  • future-oriented thinking
  • higher empathy
  • higher idealism
  • higher on openness to experience
  • lower conformity to social norms
  • moral self-monitoring
  • systematic thinking
  • value authenticity over social harmony
oct 22 2025 ∞
oct 22 2025 +
  • creative crafts
  • dance
  • language learn
  • read
  • strength train
  • tai chi
  • walk
oct 14 2025 ∞
oct 14 2025 +
  • crisk white linen
  • designer-tote bags as beach bags
  • expensive athleisure at breakfast
  • giant floppy hats
  • gold jewelry at the beach
  • indoor sunglasses
  • matching family polos
  • monogrammed t-shirts
  • overdressed luxury sandals
  • report-logo baseball caps
  • resort branded loungewear
oct 12 2025 ∞
oct 12 2025 +
  • apologizing a lot, even when asked
  • avoiding conflict
  • changing who you are to fit what you assume others want
  • doing things to be liked
  • leaving it to others to make decisions for you
  • polling others before making a decision
  • pretending to agree with things
  • seeking praise or attention
  • struggling to say no
  • withholding your opinion when asked
sep 20 2025 ∞
sep 20 2025 +
  • boundaries
  • career path
  • life choices
  • lifestyle choices
  • mental health
  • past history
  • personal beliefs
  • relationship status
  • self care routine
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sep 17 2025 ∞
sep 17 2025 +
  • adults can abandon adults
  • attraction can point us towards what we want.
  • attraction is overrated.
  • everyone has non-negociables.
  • people act out of trauma, no matter how small or positive the action. be mindful of this.
  • relationships should start from a place of value
  • respect and trust are far more important than love
  • sacrifice should be reserved for emergencies
  • successful and healthy relationships require ambition and reciprocity.
  • they're two way streets.
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sep 14 2025 ∞
sep 14 2025 +
  • bake
  • board games
  • can
  • cards
  • crochet
  • cross stitch
  • embroidery
  • garden
  • knit
  • letters
  • mahjong
  • preserve
  • puzzles
  • quilt
  • read hard copies
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sep 10 2025 ∞
sep 10 2025 +
  • annual physical
  • apply for PMP
  • apply to nonprofit jobs
  • arrange meeting with jordan (coaching call)
  • buy bookshelf
  • cancel gym membership for personal training
  • cancel subscriptions
  • create a new budget
  • find non-profit info for interviews
aug 1 2025 ∞
aug 1 2025 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +
  • history
  • homophobia
  • inclusion
  • instruction
  • judges
  • last dance
  • performance
  • preparation
  • racism
  • rent parties
  • shoes
  • types of jazz dance
  • weddings
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +
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