• a cup of coffee or tea early at the start of the day
  • being right on time for the train
  • canceled plans at the last minute
  • evening walks
  • freshly washed sheets
  • good quality pens
  • impromptu binge watching epsidoes
  • naps after turning in a big project
  • notebooks full of my handwriting
  • reading a book
  • washing my hair with an apple cider vinegar rinse
oct 22 2021 ∞
oct 22 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise
  • draft blog
  • grocery shopping?
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • post blog
  • read
  • send 5 litmag submissions
  • yoga
oct 20 2021 ∞
oct 20 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • draft blog
  • listography
  • litmag submissions (5)
  • meditate
  • money journal
  • penzu
  • planner
  • read
  • rumpus revfiws
  • write your way to freedom
oct 18 2021 ∞
oct 18 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • draft blog
  • food journal
  • groceries run
  • listography
  • lit agent package setup
  • meditate
  • money journal
  • penzu
  • read for two hours
  • yoga
oct 14 2021 ∞
oct 14 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise
  • lit mag list
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • penzu
  • read for 1 hour
  • rumpus reviews
  • walk
  • yoga
oct 12 2021 ∞
oct 12 2021 +
  • almond lotion
  • almond-scented soap
  • aloe vera lotion
  • baby oil
  • clarifying shampoo
  • cocoa butter
  • cocoa butter body wash
  • dove soap
  • ivory soap
  • tea tree oil
oct 10 2021 ∞
oct 10 2021 +
  • ambitious
  • cool
  • distracted
  • lethargic
  • sensible
oct 9 2021 ∞
oct 9 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • clean litter box
  • copywriting exercise
  • groceries
  • listography
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • penzu
  • post to blog
  • read for 1 hour
  • wash blankets
  • write down blog ideas
  • yoga
oct 7 2021 ∞
oct 7 2021 +
  • doomscrolling
  • drinking copius amounts of coffee
  • exercising when i don't feel well
  • mindless eating
  • not going to bed on time (especially on the weekends)
  • not keeping schedule
  • overeating
  • porn
  • ruminating over the past
  • sleeping in
oct 5 2021 ∞
oct 5 2021 +
  • changed my comforter
  • decorated the apartment
  • filed chapter 7
  • gratitude journal
  • hired a financial advisor
  • published a blog
  • root canal
  • started a bedtime routine
  • started reading a novel series
  • stopped watching porn
oct 4 2021 ∞
oct 4 2021 +
  • copywriting exercise
  • finish reading
  • laundry
  • listography
  • lit agency doc
  • make red beans
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • planner
  • work
  • yoga
oct 2 2021 ∞
oct 2 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • clean house
  • copywriting exercise
  • finish novel
  • food journal
  • listography
  • meditate
  • money journal
  • penzu
  • post to write your way to freedom
  • therapy
  • wash hair
  • yoga
oct 1 2021 ∞
oct 1 2021 +
  • busted fire hydrants during heat waves
  • getting school clothes
  • sno cones
  • soft serve ice cream trucks
  • swimming pools
  • the feeling after i got swimming
  • the first day of school
  • the last week of school
  • the wednesday before thanksgiving break
  • watching the fox thursday night prime time tv shows that i'd been waiting around for (martin, living single, new york undercover)
oct 22 2021 ∞
oct 22 2021 +
  • am i going to be alone for the rest of my life?
  • how much is in my checking account?
  • should i lose weight?
  • why is my life such a mess?
  • why won't he snuggle with me?
  • will chincha snuggle with me?
  • will i always be poor?
  • will i ever be loved?
oct 20 2021 ∞
oct 20 2021 +
  • immediate suspicion at the beginning of a connection (are they talking to you out of pity, humor, angst, are they irritated because they wanted the hot girl and they had to settle for your attention?)
  • it's difficult to get any of your physical, relational, romantic needs met, so you might meet them on your own through maladaptive coping mechanisms (pornography)
  • kindness seems like it can be part of a manipulation
  • no one buys you drinks - or they'll say they will and then don't do it.
  • people make sexual advances/ flirt as a practical joke.
  • people may develop romantic feelings for you, but then reject because of how those feelings developed.
  • people project negative qualities onto you, and when you want to be alone they call you out for upsetting the social balanc...
oct 18 2021 ∞
oct 18 2021 +
  • become a business analyst
  • buy a car
  • get agent representation
  • lose 10 pounds
  • make $5K/month copywriting
  • pay off student loans
  • published author
  • puppy!
  • travel!
  • two-bedroom condo
oct 14 2021 ∞
oct 14 2021 +
  • anime
  • expensive shoes
  • handbags
  • harry potter
  • monsters
  • napoleon dynamite
  • sports
  • star trek
  • superheroes
  • the kardashians
  • twilight
oct 12 2021 ∞
oct 12 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • cancel pretty litter order
  • copywriting exercise
  • get ubbersuggest
  • listography
  • lit agent list
  • meditate
  • pay taxes
  • penzu
  • post blog
  • read rumpus review
  • walk
  • yoga
oct 11 2021 ∞
oct 11 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • draft blog
  • food journal
  • laundry
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • read for 1 hour
  • walk
  • watch 'insecure'
  • yoga
oct 9 2021 ∞
oct 9 2021 +
  • 10 things i love
  • ideal file
  • insecure essay
  • introduction
  • lady with the dog (in 3-4 installments)
  • who's reading this
  • why blog
  • why read
  • why write
oct 7 2021 ∞
oct 7 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • blog
  • copywriting exercise
  • food journal
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • read for 1 hour
  • review/ draft business plan
  • rumpus review
  • yoga
oct 5 2021 ∞
oct 5 2021 +
  • buss it challenge
  • cat fights
  • dads/ husbands getting their dream dog
  • kitten attack fail
  • mukbang calorie counter
  • plus-sized clothing hauls
  • pregnancy announcements
  • proposals (black love, interracial, and lesbian)
  • surprise kittens as gifts
  • vegan recipes
  • wedding dress shopping
  • weddings (black love, interracial, and lesbian)
oct 4 2021 ∞
oct 4 2021 +
  • competing for someone else's attention
  • flight to bali
  • giving second chances
  • not getting a workstudy job in time
  • staying with someone else after they've dumped me
  • taking on criticism/ judgment when it has nothing to do with me
oct 2 2021 ∞
oct 2 2021 +
  • baska brother (parov stelar)
  • best friend (brandy)
  • crossroads (bone, thugs, and harmony)
  • i will survive (chantay savage)
  • lady (modjo)
  • motown philly (boyz II men)
  • sea and sand (nicola conte)
  • space cowboy (jamiroquai)
  • trick me (kelis)
  • you (block b)
oct 1 2021 ∞
oct 1 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise
  • draft blog
  • listography
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • penzu
  • read
  • send to 5 journals
  • yoga
oct 21 2021 ∞
oct 21 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • draft blog
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • read
  • rumpus reviews
  • send 5 litmag submissions
  • taxes
  • write your way to freedom
  • yoga
oct 19 2021 ∞
oct 19 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • clean house
  • draft blog
  • groceries (condiments)
  • listography
  • lit mag package
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • read
  • wash hair
  • write your way to freedom
  • yoga
oct 15 2021 ∞
oct 15 2021 +
  • blog
  • grow an herb garden
  • lift weights
  • make sushi
  • read tarot
  • run a podcast
  • SEO
  • speak spanish
  • swim
  • swing dance
oct 13 2021 ∞
oct 13 2021 +
  • i don't want to turn into my mother. i waited so long because i wanted to be mindful
  • i want you to be financially secure, but i also want you to be happy
  • my job is to prepare them to be a functional adult in society and its many components
  • parenting is one of the most daunting tasks that anyone can take on, and you do it for free
  • they don't owe me anything, but i owe them the world
  • you'll have to leave my home and make your way in the world eventually, but i also want to provide a safe home for you to fall back on
oct 11 2021 ∞
oct 11 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise (for study group)
  • draft blog
  • finish reading book
  • food journal
  • listography
  • lit agent list
  • meditate
  • watch 'insecure'
  • yoga
oct 10 2021 ∞
oct 10 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • grocery
  • listography
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • money journal
  • penzu
  • read for 1 hour
  • therapy
  • vaccumm
  • yoga
oct 8 2021 ∞
oct 8 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise
  • draft blog post
  • food journal
  • listography
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • penzu
  • read for 1 hour
  • yoga
oct 6 2021 ∞
oct 6 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • copywriting exercise
  • finish reading
  • food journal
  • listography
  • lit agency list
  • meditate
  • money journal
  • penzu
  • post to blog
  • yoga
oct 4 2021 ∞
oct 4 2021 +
  • 750 words
  • blog (draft)
  • finish reading
  • listography
  • lit agency list (add 20 reps)
  • make red beans
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • yoga
oct 3 2021 ∞
oct 3 2021 +
  • 30 day yoga
  • blog three times a week
  • finish business plan
  • finish business website
  • five things daily
  • gratitude journal
  • money journal
  • read the Neopolitan novels
  • record food journal
oct 1 2021 ∞
oct 1 2021 +