• confusing over what i periodically like (that i'd have to be the third part in a poly relationship which is sex focused)
  • embarrassment over my 'love resume'
  • entertaining an interest after they've let it be known that i wasn't the first choice
  • falling for people who fell in love with full blown hoes
  • feeling like i'm a bad match for anyone because i'm lousy in bed.
  • getting stuck on past mistakes -- like right now.
  • self limiting beliefs that no one will love me because of family issues
  • staying with someone after they're said i wasn't valuable to them.
  • taking advice from people who don't know me or my situation well.
  • that's it bad to have an all or nothing mentality when it comes to love
jan 15 2019 ∞
jan 15 2019 +
  • acne
  • clothing
  • food
  • hair
  • health
  • homelessness
  • literacy skills
  • nails
  • poetry
  • sight
jan 11 2019 ∞
jan 11 2019 +
  • aventer gray
  • emily b
  • exodie
  • keyshia k'oir
  • kim porter
  • kimbella
  • mashonda
  • tiny
  • tori heart
jan 15 2019 ∞
jan 15 2019 +
  • anonymity
  • blog
  • career
  • energy
  • location
  • marital status
  • money
  • portfolio
  • writing
jan 11 2019 ∞
jan 11 2019 +
  • association with poverty
  • assumptions that they won't value their womb. i've lost count how many times i've been asked why i don't have kids and if i've ever been pregnant.
  • assumptions that we'll be the ride or die, come up woman, or someone who's okay with being a second choice, or that someone will automatically be unattracted to us (colorism)
  • cherry picking hoe behavior
  • constant comparisons to non black women, that they're so much better
  • no one wants us in a feminine way
  • not being fully desired or preferred, but tolerated.
  • that we're all 'strong' and have 'attitudes' even if it's people who are aggressive and come for us.
  • we'll take care of the household, willingly split the bills, while letting our mal...
jan 15 2019 ∞
jan 15 2019 +
  • best parts of my 20s
  • books to read
  • favorite music
  • how i'd divide my life
  • journal topics
  • movies from each year i've been alive that were meaningful to me
  • next year goals
  • what i might find on the deep web.
  • what to be thankful for
  • worst parts of my 20s
dec 4 2018 ∞
dec 4 2018 +