• bayard rustin
  • bruce lee
  • ella fitzgerald
  • gloria naylor
  • hallee sallassee
  • james allen mcpherson
  • jean rhys
  • louise "mama lu" parks
  • norma miller
  • toni cade bambara
  • wallace thurman
jun 20 2026 ∞
jun 20 2026 +
  • books
  • coal tar shampoo
  • pens
  • pmp study stuff
  • rice cakes
  • seaweed
  • shorts
  • taco bell burritos
  • vegan greek yogurt
jun 16 2026 ∞
jun 16 2026 +
  • chickpeas with quinoa grain bowl
  • chipotle lime cauliflower bowls
  • easy bean salad with herbs salsa verde
  • eat the rainbow vegetable soup
  • green goddess chickpea bowl
  • high-protein white bean salad with feta and lemon garlic vinegarette
  • marry me white bean salad
  • stuffed sweet potato with hummus dressing
  • vegan superfood grain bowls
jun 7 2026 ∞
jun 7 2026 +
  • chincha (always)
  • chocoalate
  • coffee
  • freshly washed hair
  • freshly washed sheets
  • glow ups
  • meltdowns
  • rainy days
  • smutty books
may 23 2026 ∞
may 23 2026 +
  • diverse
  • expensive
  • hot
  • humid
  • relief
  • short
  • studious
may 20 2026 ∞
may 20 2026 +
  • blueberry peanut smoothie
  • coffee (with creamer)
  • dill pickles
  • grapes
  • mango
  • olives
  • peanut butter cups
  • popcorn
  • seaweed sheets
  • vanilla greek yogurt
may 9 2026 ∞
may 9 2026 +
  • 7 days in june (tia williams)
  • deep end (ali hazelwood)
  • first time caller (bk borisin)
  • how to end a love story (yulan kuang)
  • lie with me (phillipa besson)
  • persuasion (jane austen)
  • the ministry of time (kalliana bradley)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • 100K Kingdoms (nk jemsin)
  • legendborn (tracy deown)
  • shadow bride (siressia glass)
  • temple of the inner flame (amber fisher)
  • the city we became (nk jemsin)
  • the unbroken (cl clark)
feb 5 2026 ∞
feb 5 2026 +
  • based on my experiences it's not my cup of tea
  • i don't think it's any better or worse than monogamy
  • i don't think most poly ppl have a poly "look" it's just that it's a subculture and they need to signal to others that they're in the subculture (every subculture does this)
  • i hate what most people try to do with poly -- in other words, they cheat so they become polymamorous
  • i'm mostly not interested in it because it's not relationally oriented
  • it's a relational model just like monogamy
  • sex feels accelerated (that's generally speaking)
  • when operating at the baseline, it doesn't honor men
jun 21 2026 ∞
jun 21 2026 +
  • 7th wave essays (revise 2)
  • emails
  • listography
  • meditate
  • money order
  • penzu
  • pmp flashcards
  • read
  • waxing appointment
jun 18 2026 ∞
jun 18 2026 +
  • cold showers
  • drive in movies
  • falling asleep with my cat
  • ice cream
  • lemonde
  • lighter fabrics
  • longer days
  • potential friendships
  • romance novels
  • sitting in a cafe to write
  • taking pictures of my cat when he falls asleep in his cat tree
jun 8 2026 ∞
jun 8 2026 +
  • great band
  • lack of hope regarding finances
  • not as invested
  • panicked about the job search
  • r felt me up (and i liked it)
  • skipped the friday dance
  • studied during the breaks
  • sushi
  • trying to figure out how things fit into my life
may 25 2026 ∞
may 25 2026 +
  • electronic dependency
  • employment is scarce
  • facism has come back into pop culture
  • free information
  • questions around female reproduction
  • rejection of traditional ideals
  • rest is revolutionary
  • times move faster
may 21 2026 ∞
may 21 2026 +
  • being good to others and good to myself
  • creativity
  • expansion
  • love? (not sure about this one)
  • spiritual alignment
  • to experience pleasure
  • to get comfortable with endings
  • to have a good time
  • work
may 16 2026 ∞
may 16 2026 +
  • the sacred space between (kate reid)
  • the second death of licke (vl boalives)
  • the seven year slip (ashley postons)
  • the song of achilles (madeline miller)
  • this is how you lose the times war (amal el-mohtar and max gladstone)
  • this women kingston (fahereh mafi)
  • wild reverence (rebecca ross)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • I crave stability
  • I didn't sleep well at all
  • I feel tempted to cram last minute for studying
  • I miss exercising at the gym
  • I thought about contacting an old friend. I shouldn't.
  • Should I start my own consulting firm?
  • THe weather's nice. I'm going to go for a long walk
  • When will I be employed again?
jun 22 2026 ∞
jun 22 2026 +
  • clean bathroom
  • clean kitchen
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • pmp review
  • post to blog
  • read
  • submit to 7th wave
  • walk
  • wash hair
  • wax appointment
jun 19 2026 ∞
jun 19 2026 +
  • blogs to post
  • favorite things about summer
  • fellowships I've applied for
  • letters I want to write
  • sex stuff (because it's on my mind a lot)
  • slow jams
  • test anxiety
  • what to write about in my novel
jun 14 2026 ∞
jun 14 2026 +
  • bright colors
  • chincha sleeps with me less often
  • dry scalp/ dandruff
  • festivals!
  • longer daylight hours
  • reading outside
  • salads are full meals
  • sinus headaches
  • writing in cafes
may 30 2026 ∞
may 30 2026 +
  • appreciation for the quieter moments
  • concern over autonomy and control
  • creative struggles -- doing what's on trend vs what's important to me
  • feeling blessed for being single
  • frequent questions on the meaning of life
  • frustration
  • prioritizing rest
  • sexual guilt and shame
  • wisdom and love for life
may 17 2026 ∞
may 17 2026 +
  • danced with them
  • had sex
  • hand-written letters
  • purchased a donation
  • put down a deposit for a restaurant
  • said 'i love you' (I hate saying this)
  • sent gifts
  • taught them about writing
  • written a poem
may 13 2026 ∞
may 13 2026 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +