• change their minds
  • good at banter
  • great sense of humor
  • like being connected
  • make you feel smart
  • multiple subject curiosity
  • process humor quickly
  • they ask about processes
  • they know when to be quiet
  • they think before they respond
jun 13 2025 ∞
jun 13 2025 +
  • older house craftmanship
  • play for hours
  • poetic music
  • random dancing in the middle of nowhere
  • random house pop ups
  • sending hand written letters
  • sodas in glass bottles
  • the wait for pictures
  • vintage clothes
  • vinyl
  • waiting in line for concert tickets
  • walking down the street without looking at your phone
  • y2k cargo
jun 9 2025 ∞
jun 9 2025 +
  • balboa with h - even though he called it a cult
  • best dance this weekend was with g - better than sex
  • blues dances with robin
  • finally danced with g (twice -- guess I passed the vibe check)
  • h's quote: whenever you want to dance, the answer is yes
  • hosting Kelly and Nate (they were great guests)
  • last dance with h
  • led a few dances. still need lots of help with that
  • met H's new girl -- grabbed some great lines for a book
  • random solo sessions (esp. with hannah)
  • shag contest drama
  • sunday afternoon ethiopian (although i disliked the place)
apr 29 2025 ∞
may 1 2025 +
  • chasing anyone
  • dim their light for anyone
  • emotional labor
  • explain our hair choices
  • over explain themselves
  • prioritize capitalism over mental health
  • settle for struggle love
  • suffer in silence
  • teach non black people about systemic racism
  • waste their energy on drama
apr 22 2025 ∞
apr 22 2025 +
  • bird-watching
  • cemetery strolls
  • feeding ducks
  • flying a kite
  • gardening
  • ocean watching
  • picnics
  • pressing flowers
  • sidewalk chalk
  • stargazing
  • window shopping
jun 14 2025 ∞
jun 14 2025 +
  • astrology obsession
  • full eyebrows
  • glasses
  • living with parents
  • parental hangouts
  • public sweatpants
  • selfies
  • social media oversharing
  • socks and sandals
  • spending saturday nights at home
  • therapy
jun 11 2025 ∞
jun 11 2025 +
  • cycling
  • garden parties
  • hammocking
  • hiking
  • mailing letters
  • outdoor yoga
  • photography
  • pickleball
  • picnic and paint
  • press flowers
  • reading in the park
  • watercolor by the beach
jun 8 2025 ∞
jun 8 2025 +
  • afro-jazz
  • balboa
  • blues
  • boogie woogie
  • broadway
  • cake walk
  • charleston
  • east coast
  • jazz-pop
  • jitterbug
may 20 2025 ∞
may 20 2025 +
  • affairs
  • assualt
  • bands
  • blackface
  • clothing
  • community
  • competition
  • dance crushes
  • exchanges
  • exclusion
  • fatphobia
  • film
  • flights
  • harrassment
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +
  • anyone could've done it
  • i don't want to bother you
  • i'm just being realistic
  • i'm just lucky
  • i'm no expert
  • i'm not that special
  • i'm not worth it
  • i'm sorry but...
  • it's not that big of a deal
jun 12 2025 ∞
jun 12 2025 +
  • cassette tapes
  • cheap concerts
  • consistent friends
  • dinner gatherings
  • family meals
  • finding obscure tv shows
  • following recipes on paper
  • friday night movies
  • less no-shows
  • malls
  • old ways of math equations
jun 9 2025 ∞
jun 9 2025 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +
  • history
  • homophobia
  • inclusion
  • instruction
  • judges
  • last dance
  • performance
  • preparation
  • racism
  • rent parties
  • shoes
  • types of jazz dance
  • weddings
mar 25 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +