• aimless
  • broke
  • cleaner house
  • got busy
  • have more boundaries
  • less motivated
  • put out more job applications
  • read more
  • revised short stories
  • traveled more for dance
  • unemployed
  • use chat gpt more
mar 17 2026 ∞
mar 17 2026 +
  • chickpea salad lunch box
  • cucumber avocado tomato sandwich
  • cucumber hummus wrap
  • cucumber spinach sandwich
  • goat cheese tomato toast
  • green goddess tuna salad
  • lemon-dill tuna salad
  • spicy white bean and spinach salad
  • veggie sandwich
  • white bean and spinach caprese salad
mar 12 2026 ∞
mar 12 2026 +
  • classes
  • cute outfits
  • hotel
  • lunch with siwalrya
  • meeting javi <3
  • monday beach dance (the sound of the sand on the concrete)
  • pure bal dance (leading and following)
  • pure bal dance w/ jonathan
  • pure bal finals
  • vintage shops
feb 28 2026 ∞
feb 28 2026 +
  • get feedback on each draft
  • give yourself some time
  • read and write at the same time
  • write multiple drafts
  • write until you can say the same in brief and at length
feb 24 2026 ∞
feb 24 2026 +
  • 20 pounds lost
  • 75 writing rejections
  • completed novel draft
  • personal training program
  • pmp certification
  • read 30 books
  • residency
  • six figure job
  • solo jazz practice
  • substack
feb 20 2026 ∞
feb 20 2026 +
  • 7 days in june (tia williams)
  • deep end (ali hazelwood)
  • first time caller (bk borisin)
  • how to end a love story (yulan kuang)
  • lie with me (phillipa besson)
  • persuasion (jane austen)
  • the ministry of time (kalliana bradley)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • bougie
  • brunch, travel, because I'm not into the club
  • drastic age differences in kids
  • mentions a man
  • passport required (like...why?)
  • picky about maintenance
  • religious
feb 9 2026 ∞
feb 9 2026 +
  • 100K Kingdoms (nk jemsin)
  • legendborn (tracy deown)
  • shadow bride (siressia glass)
  • temple of the inner flame (amber fisher)
  • the city we became (nk jemsin)
  • the unbroken (cl clark)
feb 5 2026 ∞
feb 5 2026 +
  • abrupt ending
  • being diminished, dimissed, or harmed
  • emotional or ideological elevation of the other
  • instant connection
  • moral judgment
  • returning anyway
  • self-sacrifice to remain connected
feb 2 2026 ∞
feb 2 2026 +
  • 4 PM (interview)
  • 6 PM (interview)
  • balboa practice
  • clean litter box
  • draft red shoes
  • gym (run 5 K)
  • laundry
  • listography
  • meditate
  • pay bills
  • penzu
  • read
mar 18 2026 ∞
mar 18 2026 +
  • blocked h on ig
  • confronted hl about hotel arrangements
  • didn't attend lindyfocus after being ghosted for hotels
  • dumped s for forgetting my birthday
  • exercised 4 times a week
  • made plans
  • stopped dancing with meg after she announced she wouldn't dance with me to prioritize the out of towners
  • told katie to stop talking about an sa allegation
  • unfriended j after the insults
mar 13 2026 ∞
mar 13 2026 +
  • i (might) be better than they expected
  • i miss my cat!!
  • i'm the only black person here (eekkk!!!)
  • i've led more than i thought...not sure how i feel about that
  • it's still hard to connect with others
  • lots of rules and regulations
  • my roommate snores (but it's okay)
  • peer feedback is selective
  • still feels like there's not enough time
  • there's an exact number of leads and follows
mar 3 2026 ∞
mar 3 2026 +
  • endings matter as much as beginnings
  • food serves as connections, not status
  • gratitude extends beyond the event
  • invisible preparation
  • personal greetings and grand entrances
  • quality conversations vs guest quantity
  • space speaks through subtly
feb 26 2026 ∞
feb 26 2026 +
  • considers an event to wear her favorite pants
  • ex haunts her in the pants
  • first person of a BQ queer blues dancer
  • protagonist gives the pants away at an event to mable
  • she misses her former partner, who cheated on her with another dancer
  • stopped dancing because the memories haunted her
  • they talk about what happened in their relationship
feb 21 2026 ∞
feb 21 2026 +
  • the sacred space between (kate reid)
  • the second death of licke (vl boalives)
  • the seven year slip (ashley postons)
  • the song of achilles (madeline miller)
  • this is how you lose the times war (amal el-mohtar and max gladstone)
  • this women kingston (fahereh mafi)
  • wild reverence (rebecca ross)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • clean litter box
  • laundry (sheets)
  • meal prep
  • pack
  • print boarding passes
  • set up food station
  • set up water fountain
  • wash hair
  • write blog article (bhm/swing)
  • write/ publish substack article
feb 10 2026 ∞
feb 10 2026 +
  • buy secondhand
  • cash purchased cars
  • cook at home
  • fix things
  • not pay full price
  • save before spend
  • strategic credit use
  • use layers
  • waste = morally wrong
feb 6 2026 ∞
feb 6 2026 +
  • being condescended to
  • being the only one who puts in effort
  • constant interruption
  • dismiss feelings instead of understanding them
  • disrespect disguised as jokes
  • disrespect of time, energy, or presence
  • make everything about themselves
  • only showing up when they need something
  • pressured into saying yes
  • pretending that you're okay
feb 3 2026 ∞
feb 4 2026 +
  • cuddled with chinca
  • fight club sale
  • got hired for guest teaching
  • kept on track with diet (for the most part)
  • purchased a cute early spring coat
  • put it out there to do natal charts again
  • read "send me down"
  • revised two short stories
  • solo balboa practice
  • worked out four times a week
  • wrote novel sample
mar 19 2026 ∞
mar 19 2026 +
  • boston
  • charleston
  • chicago
  • key west, fl
  • las vegas
  • nashville
  • new orleans
  • new york city
  • oahu
  • washington, dc
mar 16 2026 ∞
mar 16 2026 +
  • alicia rae evades the truth (emily zipps)
  • first time caller (bk borison)
  • flirting lessons (jasmine guillory)
  • it had to be him (adib khorrans)
  • it's a love story (annabel monaghan)
  • love is a war song (danica noahs)
  • love's a witch (tricia o'malley)
  • one golden summer (carley fortune)
  • there's something about mira (soneli dev)
  • time loops and meet cutes (jacklie law)
  • worth fighting for (jesse q sutanto)
  • yours for the season *uzma jaladarria)
mar 10 2026 ∞
mar 10 2026 +
  • albania
  • alceintjo, portugal
  • budapest, hungary
  • el salvador
  • jyryzstan
  • malta
  • panama
  • sadinia, italy
  • valla de guadalupe, mexico
feb 27 2026 ∞
feb 27 2026 +
  • build emotional walls
  • embrace resilience
  • embrace self compassion
  • establish clear relationships
  • pursue personal growth
  • self-love
  • steer clear of toxic relationships
  • trust, but verify
feb 23 2026 ∞
feb 23 2026 +
  • bubbler - water fountain
  • come with - include
  • different - i dislike it
  • duck duck, gray truck - duck duck variation
  • interesting - questionable
  • ope - oopsies
  • puppy chow - cheese snack
  • uff da - mild distress
feb 19 2026 ∞
feb 19 2026 +
  • gym
  • listography
  • mani/pedi
  • meditate
  • pack
  • penzu
  • read
  • set up food station
  • target run/ snacks
  • wash sheets/ laundry
  • write blog article
feb 11 2026 ∞
feb 11 2026 +
  • basically, all the veggies
  • carrot
  • carrot ginger
  • corn
  • crispy garlic
  • fire powder
  • goochuchang
  • half rice
  • half roasted veggies
  • kale (3 servings)
  • kimchi (2 servings)
  • tofu
feb 7 2026 ∞
feb 7 2026 +
  • being liked by everyone
  • destructive habits
  • fear of being alone
  • identities from younger years
  • living according to others' expectations
  • non-mutual friends
  • old grudges
  • old mistrials
  • old versions of love
  • too late to change in life
jan 20 2026 ∞
jan 20 2026 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +