• certifications - i'm not sure how confident i'll be studying
  • creative breaks -- the muse has been stingy
  • finances -- I took out 401K money
  • friends - it sucks that my friends won't read my work. i get that they're in a different place but it still hurts
  • interviews -- it's been hard having to explain the federal layoff
  • weight loss -- my excitement over it ebbs and flows
apr 22 2026 ∞
apr 22 2026 +
  • elyse's party
  • groceries
  • laundry
  • listography
  • meditate
  • mind dump
  • novel
  • penzu
  • pmp study
  • read
apr 18 2026 ∞
apr 18 2026 +
  • beefs
  • blogs aren't as common
  • how fake everyone is
  • how microfame goes to people's heads
  • i miss myspace
  • sex drives so much of the connections, when we have other options
  • weird online etiquette
apr 15 2026 ∞
apr 15 2026 +
  • aimless
  • broke
  • cleaner house
  • got busy
  • have more boundaries
  • less motivated
  • put out more job applications
  • read more
  • revised short stories
  • traveled more for dance
  • unemployed
  • use chat gpt more
mar 17 2026 ∞
mar 17 2026 +
  • 20 pounds lost
  • 75 writing rejections
  • completed novel draft
  • personal training program
  • pmp certification
  • read 30 books
  • residency
  • six figure job
  • solo jazz practice
  • substack
feb 20 2026 ∞
feb 20 2026 +
  • 7 days in june (tia williams)
  • deep end (ali hazelwood)
  • first time caller (bk borisin)
  • how to end a love story (yulan kuang)
  • lie with me (phillipa besson)
  • persuasion (jane austen)
  • the ministry of time (kalliana bradley)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • 100K Kingdoms (nk jemsin)
  • legendborn (tracy deown)
  • shadow bride (siressia glass)
  • temple of the inner flame (amber fisher)
  • the city we became (nk jemsin)
  • the unbroken (cl clark)
feb 5 2026 ∞
feb 5 2026 +
  • busch gardens williamsburg
  • charlottsville
  • chinco teague
  • chrysler museum of art
  • great dismal swamp
  • maymont
  • mt. vernon
  • natural bridge state park
  • shenandoah national park
apr 20 2026 ∞
apr 20 2026 +
  • committment to self awareness above all else has caused me to make..questionable decisions when it comes to superficial areas (like money, status, etc.).
  • i analyze everything TO DEATH.
  • i care a lot about quality time - grand gestures don't move me
  • i get discouraged easily
  • i have crippling anxiety that makes it hard to move forward in life
  • i stay in my head a lot
  • it'll take some time to get to know me.
  • my depth can make me hard to relate to on a fun, superficial level.
  • past partners have wanted someone more superficially appealing
  • serious abandonment wounds. i'd rather end a relationship than work through weaponized incompetence.
  • sex isn't the primary driver for my relationships. most stuff fall apart bc we qui...
apr 16 2026 ∞
apr 16 2026 +
  • consciousness-raising
  • counterconditioning
  • dramatic relief
  • helping relationships
  • reinforcement management
  • self re-evaluation
  • social liberation
  • stimulus control
apr 11 2026 ∞
apr 11 2026 +
  • the believers (possible? re-submit)
  • the engagement party (completed)
  • the perfect love song (completed)
  • the red balboa shoes (in-progress)
  • walk on by (completed)
mar 28 2026 ∞
mar 28 2026 +
  • the sacred space between (kate reid)
  • the second death of licke (vl boalives)
  • the seven year slip (ashley postons)
  • the song of achilles (madeline miller)
  • this is how you lose the times war (amal el-mohtar and max gladstone)
  • this women kingston (fahereh mafi)
  • wild reverence (rebecca ross)
feb 18 2026 ∞
feb 18 2026 +
  • interview
  • junior leagie placement info event
  • listography
  • meditate
  • penzu
  • pmp study
  • read
  • write novel
apr 21 2026 ∞
apr 21 2026 +
  • emails
  • exercise (full body)
  • groceries
  • listography
  • meditate
  • novel
  • paperwork for 401K
  • penzu
  • planner
  • pmp practice exam
  • read
apr 17 2026 ∞
apr 20 2026 +
  • book club
  • community garden
  • cooking classes
  • craft circle
  • local trivia
  • pottery
  • recreational sports
  • supper club
  • take a class
apr 5 2026 ∞
apr 5 2026 +
  • button-down shirt
  • chic capris
  • everyday belts
  • everyday jeans
  • leather jacket
  • light weight cardigans
  • linen dresses
  • little white tee
  • midi skirt
  • modern ballet flats
  • slip dress
  • sunglasses
  • trench coat
  • white sneakers
  • woven shoulder bag
apr 1 2026 ∞
apr 1 2026 +
  • confidence
  • have high standards
  • hunger is okay
  • it's a part of their everyday life
  • keep busy
  • morality isn't attached to food
  • no mindless snacking
  • (prioritize) routine
  • reduce food noise
mar 29 2026 ∞
mar 29 2026 +
  • ambitious
  • beautiful figure
  • creativity
  • good writer
  • independent
  • inventive
  • self-sufficiency
  • sexuality
  • success
  • youthful
apr 15 2025 ∞
apr 15 2025 +