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"Many people need desperately to receive this message: 'I feel and think much as you do, care about many of the things you care about, although most people do not care about them. You are not alone.'" Kurt Vonnegut

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  • Read a YA nonfiction book
  • Read a retelling of a classic of the canon, fairytale, or myth by an author of color
  • Read a mystery where the victim(s) is not a woman
  • Read a graphic memoir
  • Read a book about a natural disaster
  • Read a play by an author of color and/or queer author
  • Read a historical fiction novel not set in WWII
  • Read an audiobook of poetry
  • Read the LAST book in a series
  • Read a book that takes place in a rural setting
  • Read a debut novel by a queer author
  • a memoir by someone from a religious tradition (or lack of religious tradition) that is not your own
  • Read a food book about a cuisine you’ve...
dec 4 2019 ∞
may 26 2020 +
  • Call Me Zebra, Azareen Van der Vliet Oloomi
  • Census, Jesse Ball
  • The Dictionary of Animal Languages, Heidi Sopinka
  • The Golden State, Lydia Kiesling
  • The House of Broken Angeles, Luis Alberto Urrea
  • The Italian Teacher, Tom Rachman
  • The Mars Room, Rachel Kushner (4)
  • Milkman, Anna Burns
  • My Sister, The Serial Killer, Oyinkan Braithwaite (1)
  • The Overstory, Richard Powers
  • The Parking Lot Attendant, Nafkote Tamirat (3)
  • So Lucky, Nicola Griffith (2)
  • There, There, Tommy Orange
  • Warlight, Michael Ondaatje
  • Washington Black, Esi Edugyan
jan 1 2019 ∞
aug 19 2019 +
  • vault living room ceiling
  • remove asbestos popcorn ceilings of death and destruction
  • washer and dryer solutions (get washer out of kitchen)
  • paint everything inside white
  • decide on sandblasting outside block
  • what to do about the fence
  • bathroom renos
  • kitchen reno
  • prioritize this list
jan 16 2018 ∞
jan 16 2018 +
  • Filthy Rich (Netflix) ★★★
  • It Felt Like Love ★★★
  • Call Me By Your Name ★★★ (good man eye candy, book was way better, 5 stars for Aciman)
  • Still Walking ★★★★★
  • Stranger Than Paradise ★★★★★
  • Paterson ★★★
  • Cleo from 5 to 7 ★★★★
  • The Cranes are Flying ★★★★
  • Pete Davidson: alive from ny ★★
  • Midsommar ★★★ 1/2
  • parasite ★★★★★
  • Long Shot ★★★
  • mike birbiglia: the new one ★★★★
  • The Report ★★★
  • Stage Fright (Jenny Slate, Netflix) ★★★ 1/2
  • Lobby Baby (Seth Meyers, Netflix) ★★★
feb 3 2017 ∞
jun 22 2020 +
  • lies incorporated, ari rabin-havt
  • spiral: trapped in the forever world, mark danner
  • private empire, steve coll
  • dark money, jane mayer
  • while the city slept, eli sanders
  • pumpkin flowers, matti friedman
dec 19 2016 ∞
dec 23 2016 +
  • Unorthodox ★★★★
  • normal people ★★★★
  • tiger king ★★★
  • trials of Gabriel Hernandez ★★★★
  • love is blind ★★★
  • Don't F**K With Cats ★★
  • Cheer ★★★ 1/2
  • Unbelievable ★★★★★
  • This Way Up ★★★
  • Glow, Season 3 ★★★★
  • Years and years ★★★ 1/2
  • euphoria ★★★★★ (kat), ★★★ (everyone else)
  • After Life ★★★★ 1/2
  • Five First Dates ★★★★☆
  • Killing Eve, Season 2 ★★★★ 1/2
  • Fleabag, season 2 ★★★★★
  • Love After Lockup, Season 1 ★★
  • Dead to Me ★★★ 1/2
  • PEN15, Season 1 ★★★
  • Catastrophe, Seasons 1-4 ★★★★☆
feb 23 2016 ∞
may 26 2020 +
  • Recovering History, Constructing Race, Martha Menchaca
  • The Beautiful Struggle, Ta-Nehisi Coates
  • How to Slowly Kill Yourself & Others in America, Kiese Laymon
  • The New Jim Crow, Michelle Alexander
  • Citizen, Claudia Rankine
  • Between the World & Me, Ta-Nehisi Coates
  • The Half has Never Been Told, Edward E. Baptist
  • Empire of Cotton, Sven Beckert
  • The Heart of Everything that Is, Bob Drury
  • An Indigionous Peoples' History of the United States, Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz
  • The Locust Effect, Gary Haugen
  • Overrated, Eugene Cho
  • Just Mercy, Bryan Stevenson
  • The Third Plate, Dan Barber
  • This Nonviolent Stuff'll Get you Killed, Charles Cobb
jun 22 2015 ∞
sep 15 2015 +
  • Power, Kanye
  • In Between Days, the Cure
  • What's the Frequency Kenneth, REM
jun 2 2015 ∞
jun 2 2015 +
  • A book written by someone when they were under the age of 25=The Icarus Girl, Helen Oyeyemi
  • A book written by someone when they were over the age of 65-Blue Nights, Joan Didion
  • A collection of short stories (either by one person or an anthology by many people) - Redeployment, Phil Klay
  • A book published by an indie press - The Argonauts, Maggie Nelson
  • A book by or about someone that identifies as LGBTQ-Adam, Ariel Schraig
  • A book by a person whose gender is different from your own-So You've Been Publicly Shamed, Jon Ronson
  • A book that takes place in Asia-Silence Once Begun, Jesse Ball
  • A book by an author from Africa, Americanah, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  • A book that is by or about someone from a...
jan 12 2015 ∞
jun 9 2016 +
  • it's hard to be nice when you feel lonely
  • I don't really like drinking anymore and lots of other people do
  • being a good parent is a constant struggle when I'm running on fumes
  • being a good wife also
  • time management
  • laziness
  • out of shape
jan 5 2015 ∞
jan 5 2015 +
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  • james gandolfini
  • hugh laurie
  • alan cumming
  • tim curry in the rocky horror picture show, Dr. Franknfurter
  • seth green
  • jeremy sisto in 6 feet under
  • dave grohl
  • michael cera (because he is barely 18)
sep 12 2007 ∞
dec 27 2007 +

Whilel there's been no movement on this list, I can't say that the trade-off is a bad one.

  • puerto escondido in mexico
  • kenya and tanzania
  • bali
  • spain
  • madagascar and timbuktu
  • iran, israel and jordan
  • india again (southern this time)
  • south africa
  • japan
  • cambodia
  • thailand
  • argentina
  • antarctica
  • lapland
  • sri lanka
  • the maldives
  • new zealand and australia
jul 2 2007 ∞
jan 5 2015 +
  • A Book Becoming a Movie in 2019
  • A Book That Makes You Nostalgic, Save Me the Pulms, Ruth Reichl
  • A Book Written By a Musician (fiction or non) Hunger Makes Me a Modern Girl, Carrie Brownstein
  • A Book You Think Should be Turned into a Movie, Crossing to Safety Wallace Stegner
  • A Book With at Least 1 million Ratings on GoodReads, The Lightning Thief, Rick Riordan
  • A Book With a Plant in the Title or On the Cover, The Things She's Seen, Ambelin Kwaymullina, Ezekiel Kwaymullina
  • A Re-Read of a Favorite Book, The Orchid Thief, Susan Orean
  • A Book About a Hobby, The River, Peter Heller
  • A Book I meant to Read in 2018, Barracoon, Zora Neale Hurston
jun 27 2019 ∞
jun 15 2020 +

I'm allowing books written in exile. Some of these would have been hard, if not impossible, to find in translation otherwise. Noted with an asterisk

  • Afghanistan: The Patience Stone, Atiq Rahimi*
  • Albania
  • Algeria
  • Burundi, A Small Country, Gael Faye*
  • England, GHost Wall, Sarah Moss
  • Ireland, Normal People, Sally Rooney
  • Japan, The Emissary, Yoko Tawada
  • Morocco, The Perfect Nanny, Leila Slimani
  • New Zealand, The Things She's Seen, Ambelin Kwaymullina, Ezekiel Kwaymullina
  • Nigeria, My Sister the Serial Killer, Oyinkan Braithwaite
  • Vietnam, Inside Out & Back Again, Thanhha Lai
nov 23 2018 ∞
oct 9 2019 +

aka Like I need another reading challenge

  • A book made into a movie you've already seen, Sharp Objects, Gillian Flynn
  • True crime, People Who Eat Darkness, Richard Lloyd Parry
  • The next book in a series you started
  • A book involving a heist
  • Nordic noir
  • A novel based on a real person, small country, gael faye
  • A book set in a country that fascinates you, Nothing to Envy: Ordinary Lives in North Korea, Barbara Demick
  • A Book with a time of day in the title, the remains of the day, kazuo ishiguro
  • A book about a villain or antihero, Social Creature, Tara Isabella Burton
  • A book about death or grief, caypso, david sedaris
  • A book with a female author who uses a ma...
dec 26 2017 ∞
jun 15 2020 +
  • A book about sports, the incomplete book of running, peter sagal
  • A debut novel, goodbye vitamin, Rachel khong
  • A book about books, The Return of the Honey Buzzrd, Aimee De Jongh
  • A book set in central or south america written by a central or south american author
  • A book by an immigrant or with a central immigration narrative, exit west, moshin hamid
  • An all ages comic
  • A book published between 1900 and 1950
  • A travel memoir
  • A book you've read before, Sharp Objects, Gillian Flynn
  • A book set within 100 miles of your location
  • A book set more than 5000 miles from your location, a separation, katie kitamura
jan 5 2017 ∞
feb 16 2020 +
  • Learn to quilt
  • Learn to read tarot
  • Learn to make pasta-2017
mar 3 2016 ∞
dec 26 2017 +
  • the new world, chris adrian & eli horowitz
  • the sellout, paul beatty
  • bats of the republic, zachary thomas dodson
  • the turner house, angela flournoy
  • fates & furies, lauren groff
  • our souls at night, kent haruf
  • ban en banlieue, Bhanu Kapil
  • the story of my teeth, valeria luiselli
  • the tsar of love & techno, anthony marra
  • the sympathizer, viet Thanh Nguyen
  • the whites, richard price
  • oreo, fran ross
  • the book of aron, jim shepard
  • the invaders, Karolina waclawiak
  • a little life, hana yanagihara
jan 20 2016 ∞
oct 3 2016 +
  • The Devil's Highway, Luis Alberto Urrea
  • Savage Harvest, Carl Hoffman
  • On the Rez, Ian Frazier
  • In the Kingdom of Ice, Hampton Sides
  • The Emerald Mile, Kevin Fedarko
  • Born to Run, Chris McDougall
  • The Last American Man, Elizabeth Gilbert
  • The Tiger, John Vallient
  • On the Burning Edge, Kyle Dickman
  • Crazy for the Storm, Norman Ollestad

FILMS

  • Valley Uprising
  • Virunga
  • The Cove
  • The Crash Reel
jun 6 2015 ∞
jun 14 2015 +
  • Chicken coop
  • planter garden
  • mud kitchen
may 28 2015 ∞
may 28 2015 +
  • Big Sur - Glen Oaks Motel
  • Missoula
  • Joshua Tree - Mike & Katie's wedding
  • Antelope Canyon, AZ
  • Anchorage to visit Ash (solo)
  • Tuscon, to run Marathon in Dec (possible solo)
jan 12 2015 ∞
jun 4 2015 +
  • Optimism
  • frustration
  • overwhelmed by my responsibilities
  • irritated with my propensity/inclination to put things off while simultaneously doing nothing to change my modus operandi
  • exhaustion
jan 5 2015 ∞
jun 7 2015 +

Perhaps if I rate the experience on a 1 to 5 scale, I will continue to plod through these? Let's see.)

  • Dreamland
  • Black Mirror
  • transparent 5
  • Mad Men
  • Game of Thrones
  • Finish the Wire (season 5)
  • Undeclared
  • The West Wing
  • Downton Abbey
  • Friday Night Lights
  • Gossip Girl
  • The Office (UK)
  • Undeclared
  • Buffy the Vampire Slayer
  • Breaking Bad
  • arrested development
  • Olive Kitteridge
  • orange is the new black - season 1 gets a...
jun 13 2013 ∞
feb 9 2016 +
  • Before Midnight
  • Frances Ha
  • Stories We Tell
  • Sun Don't Shine
  • The Bling Ring
  • The Mysteries & Mentors of Ricky Jay
  • The Kings of Summer
  • This is the End
  • room 237
  • fruitvale station
may 19 2013 ∞
apr 13 2016 +
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This was one of my first lists about 7 years ago, but is still mostly true and good for some inspo on inspiration deficit days

  • sincerity at the expense of coolness
  • my children (2015)
  • my nephews and nieces (2015 - updated)
  • expensive heels, the more impractical the better
  • brilliant food
  • tapas and sangria
  • crumbly old buildings that have been reinvented and put to new use
  • viszlas
  • warm sugar cookies
  • amateur photography
  • people who put other people first (not countries or governments), even when it can harm them to do so
  • inclement weather with belle & sebastian
  • spoon-kill the moonlight
jul 5 2007 ∞
jan 5 2015 +
  • A Book Published in 2020, Writers & Lovers, Lily King
  • A Book by a Trans or NonBinary Author
  • A Book with a great first line, Heavy, Kiese Leymon
  • A Book about a book club
  • A book set in a city that has hosted the Olympics
  • A bildungsroman, The Girls, Emma Cline
  • The first book you touch on a shelf with your eyes closed
  • A book with an upside down image on the cover, Less, Andrew Sean Greer
  • A book with a map
  • A book recommended by your favorite blog, vlog, podcast or online book club, American Kingpin, Nick Bilton
  • An anthology, The Fire This Time, Jesmyn Ward
  • A book that passes the Bechdel test, The Fever, Megan Abbott
nov 21 2019 ∞
jun 22 2020 +
  • An epistolary novel or collection of letters
  • An alternate history novel
  • A book by a woman and/or AOC (Author of Color) that won a literary award in 2018, The Great Believers, Rebecca Makkai
  • A humor book, And Now We Have Everything, Meaghan O'Connell
  • A book by a journalist or about journalism, Bad Blood, John Carreyrou
  • A book by an AOC set in or about space
  • An #ownvoices book set in Mexico or Central America
  • An #ownvoices book set in Oceania, The Things She's Seen, Ambelin Kwaymullina, Ezekiel Kwaymullina
  • A book published prior to January 1, 2019, with fewer than 100 reviews on Goodreads
  • A translated book written by and/or translated by a woman, The Emissary, Yoko Tawa...
dec 12 2018 ∞
nov 12 2019 +
  • A book published posthumously, I'll Be Gone in the Dark, Michelle McNamara
  • True crime, People Who Eat Darkness, Richard Lloyd Parry
  • A classic of genre fiction (western, sci fi, romance, mystery), Time Was, Ian McDonald
  • A comic written and illustrated by the same person, The Strange, Jerome Ruillier
  • A book set in or about one of the 5 BRICS countries (Brazil, Russia, India, China, South Africa), Interpreter of Maladies, Jhumpa Lahiri
  • A book about nature, Pure Land, Annette McGivney
  • A western
  • A comic written or illustrated by a POC, the best we could do, thi bui
  • A book of colonial or postcolonial lit, the best we could do, thi bui
  • A romance novel by or about a POC
dec 26 2017 ∞
may 26 2020 +
  • The Fire This Time, Jesmyn Ward ★★★★
  • Heavy, Kiese Laymon ★★★★★
  • Tribe, Sebastian Junger ★★★
  • Such a Fun Age, Kiley Reid ★★★★
  • The Knockout Queen, Rufi Thorpe ★★★★
  • Interpreter of Maladies, Jhumpa Lahiri ★★★
  • Writers & Lovers ★★★★
  • The Girls ★★★
  • City of Girls, Elizabeth Gilbert ★★★★
  • The Folded Clock, Heidi Julavits ★★★★
  • Less, Andrew Sean Greer ★★★★ 1/2
  • To the End of June, Cris Beam ★★★
  • All That You Can Ever Know, Nicole Chung ★★★1/2
  • Say Nothing, Patrick Raddon Keefe, ★★★
jan 17 2017 ∞
jun 22 2020 +
  • the association of small bombs, karan mahajan
  • the north water, ian mcguire
  • the underground railroad, colsom whitehead
  • the vegetarian, han king
  • war and turpentine, stefan hertmans
  • at the existentialist cafesarah bakewell
  • dark money, jane mayer
  • evicted, matthew desmond
  • in the darkroom, susan faludi
  • the return: fathers, sons and the land in between, hisham matar
dec 7 2016 ∞
jul 31 2018 +
  • Horace & Pete
  • The Mindy Show (Hulu)
  • Transparent (season 2)
  • War & Peace
  • Mr. Robot
  • Portlandia (seasons 2-now)
  • Baskets
  • You, Me & the Apocalypse
  • Last Man on Earth
  • Grinder
  • Brooklyn 911 (seasons 2-3)
  • fleabag
feb 9 2016 ∞
jan 18 2017 +
  • a horror book, Head Full of Ghosts, Paul Tremblay
  • a nonfiction book about science (sapiens), when breath becomes air, paul kalanithi
  • a collection of essays, Men Explain Things to Me, Rebecca Solnit
  • a book out loud to someone else, All of the Cat & the Hat, Curious George, Madeline books to my kids (also Ping)
  • a middle grade book, the tale of desperaux, kate di camillo
  • a biography (not memoir or autobio)
  • a dystopian or post-apocalyptic, Station Eleven, Emily St. John Mandel
  • a book published in the decade I was born (1970's), Kindred, Octavia Butler
  • an audible book that has won an audie, city of girls, elizabeth gilbert
  • a book over 500 pages, 11/22/63, Stephen king
jan 20 2016 ∞
may 18 2020 +
  • the wolf pack
  • the overnight
  • Amy
  • kung fu master, agnes varda
  • an honest liar

NETFLIX

  • The White Helmets (sep 16)
  • Amanda Knox (sep 30)
  • into the inferno (Oct 28)
  • the JT Leroy film
  • the nice guys
jun 16 2015 ∞
oct 3 2016 +
  • The New Bohemians, Justina Blakeney
may 28 2015 ∞
may 28 2015 +
  • The Storied Life of AJ Fikry
  • If you could be mine for either LGBT or YA book
  • tell me again how a crush should feel (same)
  • Hammer Headm Nina Mac Laughlin
  • what the world will look like when all the water leaves us (short stories)
  • let me tell you, shirley jackson (not yet published)
  • Red or Dead, David Peace
  • Caffeinated, Murray Carpenter (not yet published)
  • a few seconds of radiant filmstrip
  • a girl is a half-formed thing
  • smile/sisters, raina tegemeir (YA)
  • citizen, an american lyric (poetry)
  • find me, laura van den berg
  • the lobster kings, alexi zentner
  • Better than Before, Gretchen Rubin
  • Self Help, Lorrie Moore
jan 26 2015 ∞
aug 22 2017 +

I really thought about having two lists - the realistic and the aspirational. In the end, decided to be optimistic and put 'em all on realistic. I reserve the right to create the unrealistic but still thrilling aspirational list at a later date.

  • More recreational writing (not just for work). every day would be nice.
  • Work out every day for my mental(primary reason) and physical (secondary/vanity reason) health
  • run a 5 K
  • run a half-marathon
  • run a marathon
  • avoid any fun runs or obstacle courses or anything that requires paint, fairy dust or mud hitting any part of my person
  • read 52 books (ya heard me, self. do this thing. there was a time in which a book a week was childsplay. Now literal childsplay has usurped me reading time)
jan 5 2015 ∞
jan 6 2015 +
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  • dancing and dinner with a Romany (gypsy) family in Romania
  • paragliding over Neuschwanstein Castle south of Munich
  • roadside chai near New Delhi
  • getting trapped inside nepal cut off from all communication (cell phone, email, etc.) when the king closed the borders and shut down phone lines (02/05)
  • running into an old friend from India on the streets in Budapest
  • camping on the banks of the ganges
  • Halong Bay in Northern Vietnam - most beautiful and otherworldly place I've been
  • stumbling upon a buddhist monastery outside of Hue by scooter - the trees sounded like wind chimes as we approached
  • sharing chai and rice at a sikh community centre center near agra
  • after having been mildly assaulted by a drunk serbian war vet on the train to belg...
jun 25 2007 ∞
jul 15 2007 +