2017

• leaving home and going to college
• horrific breakup and leaving mom

2018

• the Bad Thing that happened over the summer and trying to unalive
• surviving and getting a job at peninsula grill

2019

• a LOT (summer pain, dad's coma, nonnie passing)
• quality time with Gigi through all of that

2020

• coronavirus, gaining weight
• quality time with mau, quality time with miltons

2021

• grandma dying, study abroad getting cancelled for the second time
• meeting my ex and moving into a calm space

2022

• finding out ex had been on dating apps, lots of fighting
• helping buy a house, decorating the house, hangout music festival

2023

• the ruthie thing, the other Big Thing, painful breakup
• quality time and reconnecting with family, travel to NYC, moving into my apartment and making it my own

2024

• saying goodbye to a friend, losing eric, losing cece
• meeting AJ, having the whole summer to spend time together and go on adventures, getting engaged