I'm thinking strengths and weaknesses, rather than what I personally find attractive. And man, is this a different kind of dream guy than I've ever imagined . . .

Positives

• Someone practical, a doer
• Someone funny and goofy
• Someone grounded
• Someone confident and assertive
• Someone social, with a knack for glossing things over
• Someone good at cooking (or who likes to cook)
• Someone outdoorsy
• Someone thick-skinned
• Someone math- and science-oriented
• Someone willing to embarrass himself, especially for the amusement of children
• Someone generous with compliments
• Someone handy
• Someone open-minded
• Someone who puts people at ease
• Someone who understands the value of leaving notes
• Someone who likes to drive long distances
• Someone punctual
• Someone who asks for directions

Negatives

• Someone kind of down-to-earth (so I could bring out his imaginative side)
• Someone unorganized (so I could remedy that for him)
• Someone not very introspective or reflective (I'd be reflective enough for both of us)
• Someone a bit impulsive (so I could put my wariness to good use)
• Someone who may or may not drink socially (because I could always be the designated driver)
• Someone not-so-great at public speaking (so I could write or deliver his speeches for him)
• Someone slapdash about grammatical rules (so I could copy edit for him)
• Relatedly, someone all about the big picture (because then I could be the one to obsess over the details)