• allow new people to come into your life; you'll discover something spectacular.
• and let the old people go
• work harder than you ever have, and the results will happen.
• expect the best; prepare for the worst.
• it's called a breakup because it's broken.
• dealing with pain means acknowledging that it's with you all the time, but not allowing it to decide how you live (i apologize for sounding clinically insane here, but tell that stupid little monster to go f-ing hide and then leave the building. and snuggle with your unicorn ... it's working)
• at least it's happening to you now, and not in five years.
• don't overanalyze.
• it's like a butterfly; the more you chase it, the faster it eludes you. and that's why it's so amazing when it finds you ... it's completely and utterly unexpected.
• love is a gift that we receive, not something we can pin down and capture. so don't try

thanks :)