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"and fantasy it was, for we were not strong, only aggressive; we were not free, merely licensed; we were not compassionate, we were polite; not good but well behaved. we courted death in order to call ourselves brave, and hid like thieves from life. we substituted good grammar for intellect; we switched habits to simulate maturity; we rearranged lies and called it truth, seeing in the new pattern ...

bookmarks:
lisa MUSIC
home cooking
FILM
travel (memorable locations)
encre to do (fall 2024)
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If you dated me:

  • THE BAD:
    • I am a klutz.
    • I act very distant, not because I don't like you, I'm just nervous.
    • I have a hard time opening up.
    • My dancing skills are embarrassing.
    • Flirting? Being sexy? I am inept.
    • I get lost in thought sometimes.
    • Sometimes, I laugh when it's not appropriate.
    • I have trouble balancing priorities, so sometimes you might have to fight my books or work for attention.
    • I don't like mushy romantic stuff. (Haven't quite decided if that's good or bad)
    • I'm slightly stubborn.
    • I'm pretty much clueless about dating.
    • Only slightly affectionate
    • I like my "me time" a little more then merited, but I'm not a loner.
    • I have a need to figure things out for myself, so it takes a bit before I ask for help.
    • I am a people-pleaser.
    • I avoid conflict.
    • Some would say I'm too passive.
    • I like to quietly take charge.
    • I can be terribly judgmental.
    • I'm a curious person.
    • Indecision! especially when it comes to places to eat or things to do.
    • I hate having my picture taken.
    • I have a habit of putting myself down.
    • I question the sincerity of compliments from people close to me.
    • I prefer writing my thoughts over voicing them.
    • I act like everything is fine when, really....
  • THE GOOD:
    • I remember things you won't expect me to.
    • You can take me anywhere for a date, even if it's just drving around, I'll be happy nonetheless.
    • I enjoy just listening.
    • I can carry on a decent conversation.
    • I know too much useless trivia.
    • I'm easy to please, the smallest thing counts.
    • I might not say it or show it, but I do care about you.
    • I'll respect your opinions as long as you respect mine.
    • I'm not clingy, but I might be a little too independent.
    • I can be serious
    • I can be silly
    • I'm always a complete dork
aug 29 2008 ∞
jul 13 2009 +