- Milcheh. Time frame? If we plan a party, discuss budget? Etc.
- Wedding. Time frame? Budget? Etc.
- Plan and discuss the paper work involved.
- Owning a place. Time frame? Budget? Etc.
- How long will we live with our parents? Should we rent/buy a small apartment?
- Children? How many? When? Time spam btwn each child.
- Specify our time as a couple.
- Specify our time with ourselves.
- Set a curfew
- Have meals together
- Family visits, how often? Who?
- Celebrate occasion together (birthdays, anniversaries, eid, etc.).
- Establish a social network.
- Find a common activity (sports, arts, reading, etc.)
- Regular health checkups together.
- Discuss whether we should both work?
- How much and when should we start saving for wedding expenses? Honeymoon etc.?
- Should we keep our money separate? Spend together?
- Discuss having a savings fund.
- Discuss having a retirement fund.
- Discuss having a fund for our children.
- Discuss investing in something?
- Work doesn't come home.
- The possibility of further studies?
- Should take a serious step in creating a portfolio and starting a freelance career. (I will also email you some advice I took from a freelance designer I know regarding that issue).
- Discuss the housemaid issue.
- Set a daily, monthly weekly chores chart and divide responsibilities. We will learn more about those once we live together. We could roughly discuss it now.
- Re warding system.
- Punishment system.
- Activities.
- Divide our responsibilities and chores.
- We should always consult each other and reach a common way regarding discipline, rules, outings etc.
- We should never hide anything regarding children's behavior and progress.
- We should always be patient and understanding and passionate with our children.
- They should be treated as adults, companions, and partners in the success of our family.
- Disrespect will not be tolerated and will be dealt with according to the punishment system set.
- There should be a stay at home parent when we have a child under 6 years.
- We should give our children responsibilities in house chores and errands depending on age and abilities.
aug 31 2009 ∞
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