• Graeme at the age of 17/18.

We were young and foolish and in love and it was nice while it lasted. We were each others firsts which I am thankful for sharing that with him. I thought the world of him until we broke up and now I am so proud of him and his accomplishments. He has changed a lot since we broke up and some of it is for the better. I will always remember and cherish what we had.

• Ryan at the age of 18.

To quote First aid kit: "I once knew a pretty girl and she was in love with the world and she loved a young man who loved her body but never saw her mind. he took everything she had kept and then everything else that was left" I lost a lot of faith in men after him. The sex was alright but I will never cherish the memory of him.