• Make a very accurate observation about me when the occasion calls for it. It lets me know you’ve been paying attention.
  • Make me a mix cd (or anything really thoughtful).
  • Know how to play an instrument. It’s something we can easily relate to.
  • Have patience with me. That’s absolutely the number one thing in everything, it always has been. I’m slow to learn and catch on, but once you get past that I'm a heart of gold.
  • Consistency (a.k.a stability). If there’s a constant pattern to anything or anyone, I attach myself to it because it makes me feel secure.
  • Make me feel needed and useful. Let me help you with your problems.
  • I don’t let flattery get to my head easily, but when I know it’s a genuine compliment I get all fuzzy inside.
  • Just laugh at me. If I’m angry, I mean to make every little thing I say exaggerated, funny, and ridiculous. It’s to make you laugh, and when you’re laughing it makes me feel better.
  • Be sensitive when those sad moments come at me. I don't expect you to hold me or any dramatic thing ever, just let me say whatever I need to say and I'm done.
  • Take note of my need for silence and peace. My head is in its utmost clarity when I am in absolute quiet.
  • Learn that I'm as compassionate as hell. You just don't know it until you try to get to know me.
nov 11 2010 ∞
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