• Do something good for someone else
  • Eat the best chocolate you can get your hands on. In bed. Or in the bath.
  • Turn up music you really love. Play it so loudly that it soaks in through your skin. Dance in your pyjamas. Feel the pain lift.
  • Call a friend & ask them if they want to have a sleep over.
  • Throw yourself head-first into a creative project. Something that you’re excited about but which feels a little too big for you. You’ll be so consumed by it that it will fuel you for ages.
  • Cover your entire body in cocoa butter & fall asleep.
  • Write a list of things that you appreciate right now, in the present moment. Focus on each of them & let the love inside you well up. Even when things appear to be going really, really badly, there are always things to be happy about.
  • Indulge in your “guilty pleasures”, whatever they are. (Old episodes of America’s Next Top Model, ginger ale, chocolate cake, romantic comedies, etc.)
  • Load up your ipod & go for a walk through your favourite park.
  • Write the birthdays of your personal heroes in your planner & work out a way to honour them on that day.
  • Tell someone cute, “You’re cute”.
  • Find a secret place with a great view. Like a tree, or a rooftop, or a hill.
  • Be optimistic.
  • Lie down in the sunshine.
  • Watch movies you used to love as a child.
  • Make a list of practical, actionable ways you can improve your situation.
  • Listen to Divine Harvest by The Mae Shi.
  • Take a nap with your head at the other end of the bed.
  • Walk around a garden centre & buy a colourful plant. Give it a name.
  • Go somewhere that people walk their dogs & make friends with some fluffy creatures.
  • Hug your friends.
  • Tell someone everything.
  • Believe that everything is always getting better.
oct 17 2009 ∞
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