- He challenges me and my perspectives at every turn. Just when I think I have things figured out he questions me and forces me to look at things from a different side.
- He's not a yes man. He doesn't go out of his way to try and appease me. He keeps my interests in mind but he also is forceful with his own opinions and needs. We're equal parts push and pull.
- He tells me to do it myself. While others may find this trait abrasive, I find it endearing. He challenges me to tackle things he knows I can do whether it be changing my own oil or doing my own taxes. He doesn't let me take the easy way out.
- He encourages my independence and growth. He's always emphasizing how important learning is and wants me to constantly challenge myself. He wants me to be the best version of me.
- He has little regard for my negativity. He sees it as a waste of time and says that I should be putting my energy into better outlets.
- He treats me as his equal. He doesn't talk down to me or question my intelligence even though we both know deep down that he's the smarter one. When I don't understand something he is patient enough to explain it to me.
- He has an immense amount of self-discipline. He's been sober for five years. He doesn't eat sweets. He runs almost every single day.
- He's dedicated to being his best self. He went back to school in order to better his career.
- He isn't shallow. He hates social media and despises anything he considers "false" or "fake". He appreciates the natural beauty of things.
- He opens up to me. Although he is notoriously reserved around other people he is willing to wear his heart on his sleeve around me.
- He comforts me when I'm upset. Whether it's buying me flowers or giving me a hug and telling me I'm beautiful, he does a wonderful job of making me feel better.
- He is charismatic as hell. People naturally gravitate towards him without knowing why.
- He has an amazing sense of humor. He can make me laugh readily and easily. His humor is often dark or sarcastic and usually at unexpected times.
- He spoils me rotten. And I mean rotten. He basically pays for every single thing and then gets angry at me if I attempt to pay for something. I am so grateful for all that he provides me with.
- He loves music. I've never met someone who had so much musical knowledge, especially classical. He's got such a passion for it. He puts my music library to shame.
- He's very protective of me.
- I look up to him. I see him as someone with a tremendous amount of life experience and wisdom. I admire so many of his traits and learn so much from him.
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