- Stop judging people's appearance! If someone did any plastic surgery or have any specific body type or is using some clothe you dont't like, thats none of your business. Nobody is minimaly defined by their looks, so cut that "they look unpleasant/cocky" shit and don't define anything about someones personality just by what they look like. You hate when people do this to you, so stop doing this to them.
- Being angry is human and ok, but stop making that your whole life! Besides, people around you have nothing to do with your angryness and you have no right to discount on them. Be angry if you have to, but that's not an excuse to treat anyone bad, scream at people and be rude to them. Control yourself.
- Greet everyone and thanks them everytime you need. There's no excuse to be rude on simple maners, and that makes you someone comfortable to be around. You know you're rude without meaning it, so theres nothing bad about thinking about what you gonna say to not hurt someone or make them uncomfortable.
- Compliment people if you feel like it! I know is hard but don't hold back. People like it and you'll make them feel better with themselves. You know all these people you always talk about how beautiful they are with your friends? Tell them! That person that just amazes you by how pretty their personality is? Tell them! That incridible talented person you admire but never had the courage to cumpliment? Tell them! It'll make you feel better and also them. Be the person you'd like to have around.
- Never makes any criticism about someones appearance or actions without being asked. Again, thats none of your business. If someone choose to never wash their hands in life you don't have nothing to do with that and it doens't matter how much germophobia you have.
- Don't talk always about you. Listen to peoples life and opinions, and if is a silly opinion you don't agree with, leave it there, you don't need to make a discussion about putting pineapples in your sandwich or any stupid thing like that. When someone's talking about their life, just listen and maybe make questions, they don't need to know the enormous story you have to share about some similarity that happened to you.
- Don't. fucking. gossip. Peoples life are not your amusement to just spread bad things about people like is nothing. Heard something bad about someone and is not really serious? Keep it to yourself. Also, you don't need to know about the gossips either. Just don't be part of this at all, that's toxic and you don't need that.
- Stop ignoring people because of nothing. If its because of your anxiety then that's ok but not answering your friends texts for weeks because you don't feel like it? Not cool. Stop being lazy and talk to your fucking friends.
- Be good to yourself. You know when you're so anxious that you start to treat yourself like one of the best people you ever met? Be more like this. You'll have to live with yourself you whole life, and i know its hard, but try to love that person. I promise things will get better when you stop that voice in your head yelling 24/7 that you're a piece of shit.
- You're not better than anyone, neither your opinions. Unless someone's talking about your human rights, you have no right to be angry at people or treat them with contempt because you think that person is wrong. Respect people's opinions and be open to be possibility that you may be wrong about things too. It's ok to recognise you're wrong and change you way of thinking about things.
- Apologise when you know you're wrong. Even if it seems too late or you just feel like you can't because you're too proud, try to apologise. It's ok to make mistakes as long as you grow up and learn with them, and that's how the learning starts.
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