- He made me feel that crying was a weakness. He wouldn't comfort me, just berate me, tell me I needed to be "stronger". That crying would never help.
- I think I just saw in him his potential, and that blinded me to how immature and wrong for me he was.
- I MADE EXCUSES FOR HIM ALL THE TIME. NO MORE.
- I fantasized that if we started a new life together, he'd change for the better and we'd be even happier.
- I would have been miserable out there, not knowing anybody, no transportation, no friends, no support network.
- When we argued we were both immature, but he would hurt himself and that had a psychological effect on me, not good.
- He would never do anything I wanted to do even if it made me happy.
- Refused to be a part of my family, thus horrible arguments on the holidays.
- Distrusted my best friend because of his past
- Too many past issues he has to deal with himself if he ever does.
- Had "us vs them" mentality, not healthy
- Said he'd give up smoking, had a year and a half but it was always excuse after excuse of "stress" etc.
- Didn't trust me 100%. Big no no.
feb 26 2015 ∞
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