i am

• afab
• ambiamorous
• hyperromantic
• lesbian
• neptunic
• pansensual
• sweet heart

you're my type

• artist
• colorguard / dancer / cheerleader
• dress in sculptural fashion
• femme
• fluent in all love languages... because i am
• matching pfps
• older than me
• poets
• taller than me
• we cook dinner together, slow dance in the kitchen, and leave the dishes for tomorrow
• we make playlists together
  • and funfetti cakes
  • and pinterest boards
  • or a mural
• we've been friends for a long time

green flags

• 420
• cat person
• from appalachia
• girlblogger
• managing ur own finances fr
• play minecraft
• same music taste
• spotify user
• u drive
• u have pets

beige flags

• aspec
  • i’m hyperromantic and i really like gettin down n dirty sooooo idk if that would work out monogamously
• eating disorders
  • i am in recovery i cannot extend the help to u that u need
  • if u r in recovery then u can disregard this i just know that if ur actively hurting we will only make each other worse
• keep snapchat streaks
• live with ur parents
• lived in the same house ur whole life
• neurotypical
• nut allergy
  • i just eat them a lot. how would we smooch
• overly tidy
• sober
  • i'm proud of you but we probably won't get on monogamously or long term
• u didn't struggle growing up
  • i'm happy for u but i need to be understood on an extremely deep level and if u can't fathom my pain we can't heal together
• vanilla

red flags

• cleanliness > everything
• coming over to my birthday party and instead of hanging out u just do my dishes bitch stfu
  • or rearranging the silverware drawer???
• ghosting
• hatin on polyamorous ppl
• hating on other people needlessly, randomly, or otherwise
• lies
  • i literally do not lie i cannot i have autism and i promise if u lie i will find out eventually and i will literally never trust u again
• looking thru my damn phone behind my back??? bitch like Just Ask
• people who don't give head
  • especially if they expect it from someone else like huh??? rat bastard
• planning to move away (if we're monogamous and u don't intend to include me like girl bye)
• refusing to meet my family... or if u won't come to family events...
• u don't voice ur needs
• u rather sit on ur phone than go hang out or something idk like i doom scroll too but if u ask me to do something i'm leavin that thing at home and u have my full attention
• white lies

dealbreakers

• "you're too much" die
• cheating
• long distance if we're monogamous... i am a traveller but i don't want to commit to one person if they live across the country
• lying
• not communicating ESPECIALLY IF WE'RE POLY / OPEN
  • like we gotta actually communicate about boundaries beforehand

dni

• haters
• u have the same name as any of my abusers
• under 22 as of 1 jan 2024