- observe, observe, observe.
- don't let others influence you into thinking that kindness is weakness
- detach and set boundaries with your family
- be forgiving
- be okay with feeling cringe/embarrassing
- try to participate in the society
- stay away from people who gossip and are generally negative about everything
- think and think and think before talking
- it's okay to change your opinion
- stop trying to "fix" people's behavior
- don't mind destructive criticism, focus on the constructive one.
- know when to fit in
- know when to stand out
- create your own community
- you have to climb socially
- know women's history and history and use it to your advantage
- have intellectual rigour
- find a third space
- do not force friendships, and learn how to be by yourself more.
- you need allies in areas where you want to win
- your social skills will take you far
- have discretion.
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