• work on your emotional intelligence
  • define your raison d'être
  • have constant awareness of procrastination cues
  • stop aiming for perfection
  • don't bluff, work in silence.
  • stop thinking about the worst case scenarios
  • never do what doesn't sit straight with you/makes you uncomfy no matter how judged you'll be for it. trust your instincts; it's totally different from fear and you know it.
  • talking of fear, you've overcame it multiple times before and you'll overcome it again and again.
  • just like fear, living in fantasy and daydreams are but distractions.
  • keep Allah in your mind and heart 24/7, hurry to pray, do good, ask for forgiveness wisdom patience and good health.
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +
  • move out
  • settle in a good workplace
  • get a college degree
  • travel alone
  • adopt a cat
  • take care of my family despite despite despite
  • learn how to invest
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +
  • keep Allah in your mind and heart 24/7, hurry to pray, do good, ask for forgiveness wisdom patience and good health.
  • read about Islam, Muslims and their history
  • read Quran everyday, journal about your personal musings of it.
  • watch Chaaraoui's lectures
  • (and read his books)
  • follow every sin with a double effort in getting closer to Allah.
  • quit listening to music
  • memorize Quran
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +
  • stop eating crap
  • try to cook that crap -healthy version- at home
  • try a new recipe every now and then
  • don't surpass cravings
  • go on a walk everyday
  • go walking around unfamiliar (but safe) areas
  • if unable to go out, stretch or do simple pilates
  • drink 2L of water everyday
  • read books
  • don't go on your phone first thing in the morning
  • listen to your body
  • take that nap if you need it
  • don't scroll it's stupid you know it's stupid why do you keep doing it?
  • don't sleep more than 7.5 hours it makes you feel like crap every time
  • pray and make duaa when anxious
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +

cannot live without:

  • reading
  • writing
  • learning languages

want to get back to them/give them more time by studying them:

  • drawing
  • photography

i can do without for months:

  • playing video games
  • watching movies
  • listening to music
  • crocheting

i want to do someday:

  • playing some kind of instrument (violin mostly)
may 12 2024 ∞
may 12 2024 +
  • observe, observe, observe.
  • don't let others influence you into thinking that kindness is weakness
  • detach and set boundaries with your family
  • be forgiving
  • be okay with feeling cringe/embarrassing
  • try to participate in the society
  • stay away from people who gossip and are generally negative about everything
  • think and think and think before talking
  • it's okay to change your opinion
  • stop trying to "fix" people's behavior
  • don't mind destructive criticism, focus on the constructive one.
  • know when to fit in
  • know when to stand out
  • create your own community
  • you have to climb socially
  • know women's history and history and use it to your advantage
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +
  • French:
    • conversational
    • writing
  • Japanese:
    • kanji kanji kanji
  • Korean:
    • vocabulary
    • grammar
    • pronunciation
may 11 2024 ∞
may 11 2024 +