- men are rough (handshakes, backpats, headpats.)
- handshakes (formal or informal) are super important. your grip must be firm, never too heavy nor too limp.
- if you're going to gesticulate a lot, make it sharp. also, refrain from letting your arms hang around your chest area. keep them by your eye-level or by your hips.
- don't knock your knees. spread your legs (but no need to manspread.)
- when you walk, do not sway your arms too much.
- if someone tells you to do something, you just do it. don't give excuses (unless it affects your health.)
- proper posture is crucial (walk with your chest.)
- no matter your height or demeanour, you must never appear small. ppl are going to say it's about 'confidence', but tbh you just gotta look like you're unpleasant to be approached.
- people (mostly women) are going to expect you to be strong regardless of how you look.
- don't overshare feelings of inadequacy. if you complain, complain quickly & dismiss it asap.
- joking around your feelings is allowed, though.
- nods are the "hi" & "hello" & there are multiple nods to signify different things.
- this channel is a lifesaver.
- fathers will want to "adopt you" if they find you lacking, but curious. stick to it coz it's always worthy to learn something new.
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