child free

• i know i could not afford to have even one kid (don't have enough money and my oldest cat costs hundreds a month in medication and vet visits due to her health)

marriage free

• i couldn't get married even if i wanted to
• expensive af even if you do everything yourself
• would want a prenup
• divorce is messy and expensive, witnessed 2 of my family members go through it (and if you have kids it's even worse)