- if you rely on one person for your happiness, you will feel heartbroken when they are not there anymore.
- try not to rely on anyone, period - strive for independence. being tied to others seems nice in theory, but things get messy sometimes and it's better for you to have your own things.
- be a kind person. know your limits, and communicate your needs, but try to be nice.
- don't be a pushover. if someone crosses you, is rude to you, mistreats you, or is being a jerk - tell them off!
- the pressure to fit in and be accepted is very strong, it's evolutionary - and it can be lonely to swim against the current - but you'll be happier than following trends you don't believe in.
- invest in good, practical, comfortable shoes, a good bed, a functional and durable car, and good internet.
- this life goes by so unbelievably fast. make sure you are enjoying your time here. just do things you enjoy, do them by yourself if you have to, you might find you enjoy that more. just don't let the precious time slip by. before you know it, it will be gone.
jun 1 2020 ∞
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