physically

• I don't have a strong sense of a type, but there are a few traits that show up routinely when I get a crush. They're not always together (e.g., maybe they have brown eyes but are blond), but all of my crushes have had at least one of these in common:
  • brown or black hair
  • brown or black eyes
  • tan or darker skin
  • thick, chubby, or fat

mentally / habitually

• someone who wants to do nice things for me from time to time, instead of putting me in a position to where I'm always the giver or otherwise expecting me to constantly cater to them
• social consciousness is a must, pro-queer ideals are hot
• someone who doesn't do any sort of drug regularly (marijuana included)
  • bonus points if they're open to drug use from time to time (preferably nothing especially damaging or addictive, if you get my drift)
• patience
• weirdness -- if we can't be weird together, I don't want it
  • nerdiness is a bonus, whatever flavor it comes in
• an appreciation for the morning is insanely attractive + people who aren't grumpy when they first woke up, though neither of those things are what I'd consider a "must"