• Start looking for a job.
• Let people know you are looking for a job.
• Email peeps who are working where you think work could be available.
• Ask them for feedback on the company and watch how empty- headed they suddenly become.
• Ask them to forward your resume and cover letter to HR.
• Sit back and watch as they fumble with the words to explain why they can't help you or better yet, just igmore you altogether...

• Good men take time to get to know you, they don't pounce.
• At 40+ there are a lot of people divorcing.
• It takes a man until 40 to learn it's not all about looks, unless he has $$$$ then he still wants a younger, good-looking chick.
• Old guys w/ $$$$ like to drive little red sports cars. LOL

The following is a list of things I'm indulging in too often....

• Beef
• Scones
• Bread
• Frozen drinks (i.e. soft serve, iced coffees)
• Blue chips
• Clotted creme and lemon curd on scones (see above)

• Thinking about Obama in the White House for four years of Liberal bliss.
• The vacation my Mom and I are taking to Cape Cod this summer.
• This summer will be my first time at a B&B.
• Hanging out with my nieces.
• The warm weather.
• My new Toyota Corolla (purchased this past March).
• I have been following my insticts.
• My bangs

• Cursing
• Tattoos
• Crude jokes or off color remarks
• Loudness
• Excessive drinking
• Mistreating others
• Violence or criminal behaviour
• Poor personal hygiene

• My fabulous friends
• My nieces and ...
• Their Mom
• My Mother
• Traveling
• Shopping
• My cell phone and i-Pod nano
• British murder mysterys- TV shows and movies
• Dark Shadows
• Netflix
• My car
• Kind, supportive people
• Intelligence
• Far left liberals
• The GLBT community
• Abortion being legal
• Sunny Fall days
• Showing my nieces new things

• Cheapness
• Control issues
• Stupidity
• Apologies without the change
• People who drive recklessly with me in the car
• Over eating
• Miserable co-workers or bosses
• Republicans
• Religious zealots
• Homophobes and racists
• Larry King
• being unplugged emotionally
• Sickness in myself or others I care for
• Paying for parking
• The war
• Gas prices

1. Wedge sandals
2. sparkle flip flops
3. Cool tees in general
4. gaucho length pants
5. Cool purse
6. White teeth
7. Shiny hair
8. Shade
9. Fake tan

1. Ate healthy non-stop
2. Lost weight
3. Listened to lots of music
4. Took a shore vacation
5. Got plenty of sleep
6. Hung out with friends
7. Got a budget done for the upcoming year
8. Conserved gasoline
9. Recycled paper and plastics
10. Read some good books
11. Blogged a lot
12. Got a mammogram
13. Got a phyiscal

1. Sims 2 game
2. Tons O' new music for my iPod
3. LV luggage duffel bag
4. Brand new Nissan Altima
5. Art deco house in South Beach
6. Apartment in NYC
7. To get inside the Dakota for a tour. I love turn of the century buildings in NYC
8. A little doggy I can dress up and walk around with

1. Zack de la Rocha
2. Sean Lennon
3. Jordan Galland
4. James St James
5. Joi Ito

1. Stay out of the sun
2. Don't smoke
3. Be drug free including weed
4. Use a teeth whiter- yes I mean YOU! (Crest white strips)
5. Drink loads of H2O
6. Address adult acne if you have it
7. Use foundation- yes this means YOU!
8. Keihls has great lip balm/products
9. Love Life!

1. Being dishonest
2. Let me find out you voted for Bush
3. Take advantage of my generous nature
4. Acting fake or phony with me (I'll know)
5. Correcting me or putting me down
6. Trying to control me

1. Salmon and steak
2. Light mocha frappacinos from the "evil green empire"
3. My i-Pod nano
4. Wearing a seat belt
5. Getting exercise
6. Blogging (www.UrbanAddiction.com)
7. Classic films (Gene Tierney, Bette Davis)
8. The beauty of summer and being happy

That's all for right now.

1. Poof
2. Hating me won't make you pretty
3. Don't hate participate
4. Get a life, other than mine
5. Poof

1. Ireland
2. Hawaii (again)
3. Las Vegas
4. Brussels
5. The South of France (again)
6. London (again)
7. Japan
8. Tuscany
9. Cuba
10. Thailand
11. Greek Isles
12. Spain
13. Africa
14. Ibiza
15. Cape Cod

1. 16 Candles
2. Juice
3. Leaving Las Vegas
4. Lost in Translation
5. The Devil Wears Prada

1. Ignorance of any kind
2. People who never pick up the check or leave a tip and think no one notices
3. Racial slurs
4. Low class/uneducated people (not necessarily formal)
5. Potty humor/dirty jokes
6. Workaholics
7. Bad table manners
8. Excessive cursing
9. Cheapness of any kind
10. Loud people, especially in public
11. Strippers
12. Bad food at a party
13. Cheap or tacky clothing
14. People who re-gift
15. People who give gifts you know they get for free o...

1. Catcher in the Rye
2. Picture of Dorian Grey
3. Perfume: The Story of a Murderer
4. Bangkok 8
5. The Beach
6. Tennessee Williams: Collected Stories
7. Edie: An American Biography
8. Disco Bloodbath: A Fabulous But True Tale of Murder in Clubland
9. Che Guevara: A Revolutionary Life

Here are some benefits I've noticed as of today- 10/07/06.

1. I sleep better.
2. I don't have various food cravings anymore.
3. I haven't eaten pizza (a former addiction) in 3 months and I DON'T MISS IT.
4. Just for today: I never want to eat unhealthy again.
5. I see the damage loads of bread and pasta do to my mind and body.
6. I feel full most of the time and hungry only at meal time.
7. I have more energy.
8. I only eat out ...

In no particular order and seen mostly in the 80's.

• Rick James
• Adam Ant
• Depeche Mode
• Kid Creole and the Coconuts
• Lou Reed
• Gladys Knight and the Pips
• Public Enemy
• RUN/DMC
• The Real Roxanne
• Kurtis Blow
• The MaryJane Girls
• The Fat Boys
• P.E. (Doing Da Butt)
• Franz Ferdinand
• Rob Thomas (Friends choice, not mine)
• Adema
• Disturbed
• She Wants Revenge
• Lovemakers
• Madonna
• Prince
• Michael Jackson
• The Jackson 5
• Grandmaster Flash and the Fu...

1. Letting go of a hurtful relationship at the beginning of the year.
2. Processing the anger from my past.
3. Treating myself really well by eating healthy.
4. Feeling more mature and more OK with myself. I don't want to hide my true self anymore.
5. Loving my own company.
6. Accepting that I'm happy where I am with my job.
7. Laughing at insane family members rather than arguing with them.
8. Giving myself loads of credit for...

• Bjork
• Sean Lennon- Check! As of October 27th, this dream came true and he was wonderful.
• Madonna (As of July 2006- UGH! So glad I didn't pay to see her show from what I heard)- Cancel this.
• Dupo Yume
• U2

Added As Of 3/17/07

• Rage Against the Machine