all not need be filled. i am perfectly with somebody who fills even just a few of these traits.

• being kissed on the top of the head
• hugs, hugs, cuddling, spooning, hugs
• takes care of me
• shyness
• intelligence
• looks me in the eye
• skinniness
• thinks i look good even when i know i don't
• enjoys going out and staying in
• doesn't mind my mother
• good smelling
• nerdiness
• accepting of me and everything about me
• manners
  • pulling my chair out for me
  • opening the car door for me
• a good vocabulary
• depth, aka:
  • we can have intelligent conversations together
  • he can teach me new things about myself
• "artsy-ness"
  • he doesn't have to be good at it, just enjoy it.
• he calls me "beautiful", "lovely", "gorgeous"
  • NOT "sexy" or "hot" [_well, sometimes_]
• calls me 'doll', 'darling', and the like.
• glasses-wearer
• decent fashion sense
  • scarves
  • glasses
  • "indie"
• nice teeth
• secure of himself
  • but just a tad insecure so I can tell him he's perfect