• having a very clean car
• having a clean purse and carrying the essentials
  • not having to dig in your purse
• being dressed appropriately for the weather
• reading the care tags/materials of clothing when shopping
• auto-piloting bills, appointments, etc.
• having an address book or list
• being able to cook things perfectly (because you've made them more than once)
• having pictured printed and framed
• not leaving dishes in the sink overnight ...
• knowing who your local and state representatives are
• knowing key figures in the federal government, at high levels
• reading the local news
• global awareness: international affairs, even media from other countries
• being able to navigate without Google Maps
• taking things to the dry cleaner/tailor
• shopping for non-plastic fabrics
• using a delicates bag
• moving slowly and with purpose
  • good posture and ease of movement
  • spatial awareness and consciousness
  • be still - keep fidgeting to a minimum
• embrace silence - don't overexplain or overshare
  • don't use filler words
  • strive for an extensive and varied vocabulary
  • swear minimally - it's punctuation, not filler
  • knowing how to tell a story well
  • not interrupting
• being a good listener
• remembering things about other people

things

• a lint roller
• a watch
• a compact mirror
• sunglasses
• a nude camisole and slip that match your skin tone
• a label maker
• spray bottle of vodka and wrinkle release for travel
• well-fitted bras and underwear