- PSL / pumpkin cream cold brew
- watch practical magic
- spook-ify thrifted art with a friend
- carve a pumpkin
- bake a pie
- make creamy mushroom wild rice soup
- vases of moody flowers
sep 4 2024 ∞ sep 4 2024 +
- manifestation journaling
- tarot
- evening walks and baths with my love
- meditation - create a sacred space
- yin class every sunday
- floss
- herbal infusions
- morning routine - q-less & tea, intention setting
create more ease:
- rethink the flow of the office so that there is somewhere to sit and read, somewhere special to meditate, less clutter, more intentional placement
- go to bed early enough that getting up isn't a battle in the morning
- practice methods of transitioning between tasks (use reddit as a resource for advice)
- minimal alcohol and best food possible to...
jul 6 2024 ∞ aug 12 2024 +
- vintage mirror by front door
- cool outlet covers
- plaid blanket
- quilt
- vintage bathroom hardware
- framed documents, papers, mementos
- wallpaper?
may 28 2024 ∞ sep 4 2024 +
- cooking oils
- undies & bralettes
- makeup brushes
- bar soap
- wool socks
- etsy handmade mugs
- amber drinking glasses
apr 14 2024 ∞ apr 22 2024 +
- making fairy houses and moss gardens
- playing with polly pockets
- exploring the woods
- limited too glittery girly outfits
- discovering books by randomly picking something off the shelf
- "documenting" watching a movie in my journal
- staying up way too late watching music videos on MTV and the nanny or scrubs
mar 19 2024 ∞ mar 19 2024 +
- LMNT electrolyte powders (citrus and watermelon!)
- brown sugar cinnamon lattes
- album: eternal sunshine - ariana grande
- listography
- show: top chef
- discovering new podcasts (tape notes!)
- chocolate martinis
- solitaire
- spring cleaning
mar 11 2024 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- stop sleeping in my makeup
- eat more veggies/whole foods
- take supplements
- nice earrings
- keep working on personal style
- lots of showers, use nice body wash and lotion
- go back to aussie hair products
- perfect makeup and skincare routines
- spend lots of time in the sun
- stay hydrated
- herbal infusions
- learn to play chess
- work on disc golf and pickleball skills
- dedicate time to write and punch needle
mar 8 2024 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- weepah way for now
- black swan
- little women
- the prestige
- you've got mail
- blue is the warmest color
- ginger & rosa
- somewhere
- frances ha
- the girl with the dragon tattoo
- almost famous
- the virgin suicides
aug 13 2023 ∞ oct 12 2023 +
activities
eat/drink
- Alaire at Hotel Condes de Barcelona - rooftop bar/restaurant
may 29 2023 ∞ jul 23 2023 +
OUROBOROS
When were you the cause of your own undoing?
- i knew that someone was bad, but i ignored my innate knowing and pushed to gain their approval anyway. not knowing how to disregard people who didn't serve me.
WET NOODLE
What was deeply unsatisfying or a waste of time?
- watching a depressing TV show and realizing i invested my delicate emotions into a fictional piece of content that i knew was going to crush me and make me sad.
ACCOMPLISHED What was completed or came to fruition?
- i got a new job, so naturally and effortlessly!
PETTY THEFT
mar 14 2023 ∞ mar 14 2023 +
- jeune et jolie
- ginger & rosa
- eletrick children
- god help the girl
- sleeping beauty
- blue is the warmest color
- weepah way for now
- the moth diaries
- 17 filles
- sound of my voice
- 20th century women
- frances ha
- submarine
- lovesong
- american honey
- somewhere
- like crazy
- mistress america
- charlie bartlett
- another earth
- very good girls
jan 2 2023 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- @cowb0ykai (athens, GA)
- @moonpie.tattoo (greensboro, NC)
- @jayceeshinetattoos (anderson, SC)
- @haley.tattoos (avl, NC)
- @peaceflowertattoo (avl, NC)
- @ink.by.brooke (avl, NC)
- @paynes___grey (avl, NC)
- @megankellyart (avl, NC)
- @sirenarosetattoo (hendersonville, NC)
- @foxandflame (avl, NC)
- @land.of.sky (avl, NC)
- @bonitto.ink (avl, NC)
- @astro.cat.tattoo (avl, NC)
- @carrion.beetle (raleigh, NC)
- @caveman_self_concept (avl, NC)
- @the.blood.vvitch (avl, NC)
- @tanglewoodtattoo (avl, NC)
- @nu.monti.tattoo (avl, NC)
- @themutemaker (avl, NC)
- @intuitive_tattoo (charlotte, NC)
- @ch3rry.chrome (avl, NC)
nov 25 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- florals and quirky lettering/illustration with pastels
- folk art and quily-inspired linocut prints
- small punch needle wall hangings and pouches
- watercolor made from natural pigment
nov 2 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- morning routine
- charge phone in office
- brush teeth, wash face, dry brush & moisturize
- fresh clothes
- make tea & pause while kettle boils
- tea on the porch with gratitude journal
- get ready for the day with music or podcast
- eating to heal
- plan meals rather than just grabbing whatever
- primarily vegetarian (vegan when possible)
- protein-focused breakfasts
- prep food the night before to take to work
- skip pastries at coffee shops
- learn more about nutritional content of p...
jul 5 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- Chase outdoor jazz
- Go on a nature walk
- Romanticize spring cleaning
- Journal in the morning while it’s still dark
- Miss your train stop
- Meditate while you run
- Host a picnic for your loved ones
- Surprise your dog with a new park – a big grassy open one
- Drive for an hour at dusk
- Walk for an hour at dawn
- Bike for an hour at noon
- Explore an esoteric hobby
- Collect parts of nature (shells, leaves, dries flowers, rocks)
- Make a campfire
- Play fetch under a full moon with your pup
- Find natural mirrors
- Research themed recipes
mar 7 2022 ∞ mar 14 2022 +
- how to hide an empire by daniel immerwahr
- the jakarta method by vincent bevins
- washington bullets by vijay prashad
- base nation by david vine
- blackwater by jeremy scahill
- the end of policing by alex s. vitale
- bring the war home by kathleen belew
- the shock doctrine by naomi klein
- on anarchism by noam chomsky
- the new jim crow by michelle alexander
authors: angela davis, george jackson, ijeoma olue, amanda seales, assata shakur, ibram kendi, zora neale huston, emmanuel acho, marc lamont hill, bell hooks, frantz fanon, huey newton
Other suggestions: Patriotic Dissent by Daniel Sjursen, War is a Racket by Smedley Butler, and Worth Fighting For by Rory Fanning
jan 18 2022 ∞ jan 18 2022 +
- homemade biscotti
- homemade granola
- tufted fabric hoops
- puzzles
- dried or felt flowers in a thrifted vessel
- homemade coffee syrups
- bubble bars & soaps from lush
- handmade journal/notebook
- framed print by a local artist
- plants
- hair comb or scalp scrubber
nov 10 2021 ∞ nov 11 2021 +
- join coffee shop star programs to get free rewards
- download the starbucks app to get free rewards
- download the target app & use coupons, deals etc.
- free hobbies
- use the library and only buy copies of books that i loved & would read again or can't find at the library and really want to read
- thrift shopping
- sell items on depop
- always shop the sales at publix
- repair or rework clothing i already have
- try to use less water and heat
- look into shops where you can bring your own container and fill with spices, etc.
- look for free or cheap things on offerup, nextdoor, etc.
nov 1 2021 ∞ nov 2 2021 +
- cook:
- pad see ew
- southern tomato pie
- finish watching a single man & my octopus teacher
- stop apologizing for taking up space
- roll over 401k
- eat more vegan
- finish middlesex
- buy a succulent for my desk at work
may 10 2021 ∞ may 10 2021 +
- a new earth - eckhart tolle
- the untethered soul - michael singer
- the alchemist - paul coelho
- vibrate higher daily - lalah delia
- loving what is - byron katie
- present over perfect - shauna niequist
mar 20 2021 ∞ mar 22 2021 +
- santorini, greece
- chattahoochee, georgia
- jackson hole, wyoming
- tulum, mexico
- byron bay, australia
- amalfi coast, italy
- marseille, france
- machu picchu, peru
- budapest, hungary
feb 10 2021 ∞ feb 10 2021 +
- rare beauty concealer
- tarte shape tape concealer
- glossier skin tint
- covergirl clean matte bb cream
- maybelline dream fresh bb cream
- glossier boy brow
- glossier moon lidstar
- benefit roller lash
- glossier lash slick
- maybelline snapscara
- flesh powder blush
- benefit posietint
- urban decay beached bronzer
- mac strobe cream
- glossier generation g
- vaseline rosy lips with almond oil
aug 7 2020 ∞ feb 10 2021 +
- french press and toast with butter and honey/jam
- reading on the front porch
- long walk listening to a podcast
- going to a coffee shop to write, read, journal
- doing chores and tidying up
- watching a cozy movie or tv show
- making a nice dinner and eating on the porch
jun 19 2020 ∞ jun 19 2020 +
- vitra's atlas of furniture design
- furniture design: an introduction to development, materials and manufacturing
- guerrilla furniture design
- goods 2: interior products from sketch to use
- furniture marketing: from product development to distribution
- herman miller: a way of living
- børge mogensen: simplicity and function
- history of furniture: a global view
- artek and the aaltos: creating a modern world
- how to build modern furniture
may 25 2020 ∞ may 25 2020 +
smithsonian natural history holocaust (whole day) monuments nice dinner bar hopping
food
coffee/cafes
- baked & wired (cupcakes!)
drinks
- churchkey (beer & snacks)
- columbia room (fancy bar/lounge)
- dos mamis (colorful festive cocktail bar)
- copycat co. (hip w/ chinese street food)
nearby
- big bear cafe (cute lunch/coffee)
- the pub & the people (gastropub/tavern)
- the red hen (rustic italian)
oct 30 2019 ∞ oct 30 2019 +
- bananas
- spinach
- citrus
- sweet potatoes
- strawberries
- brown rice
- eggs
- oatmeal
- yogurt
- hummus
- avocados
aug 9 2018 ∞ aug 9 2018 +
- asheville, n.c.
- austin, t.x.
- portland, o.r.
- nashville, t.n.
- london
- vienna
- berlin
aug 5 2018 ∞ aug 5 2018 +
may 18 2018 ∞ may 18 2018 +
apr 16 2018 ∞ apr 16 2018 +
- personal writing every day, even just one word
- make healthier choices with food (1400 cal. a day max!) and only eat out of hunger, not boredom or for pleasure
- figure out a "side hustle" personal project
- read consistently (not like three months between each book or taking a month to read a book)
- work through my list of restaurants/coffee shops/bars to try, try more new places instead of only going to my favorite places
- make new friends
- take more photos of people + use my polaroid more (take it to work)
dec 25 2017 ∞ dec 25 2017 +
- adwoa aboah
- karlie kloss
- jena malone
- brit marling
- alison sudol
- haley bennett
- dakota johnson
- jenny slate
- maggie rogers
- lalalivia
aug 17 2017 ∞ jan 24 2020 +
aug 15 2017 ∞ aug 15 2017 +
cute generator idea :^)
- hot tea
- thrilling novels
- archer
- cuddling up in bed
- youtube makeup videos
- putting on a cute outfit
- cooking a meal for myself
- hot chocolate
- going to the coffee shop
- seeing a friend
- going to the movie theater
- thrift shopping
- collaging
jul 23 2017 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
- the recordist - short (2007)
- political disasters (2009)
- sound of my voice (2011)
- another earth (2011)
- arbitrage (2012)
- the company you keep (2012)
- the east (2013)
- the better angels (2014)
- i origins (2014)
- the keeping room (2014)
- posthumous (2014)
- babylon - miniseries (2014)
mar 12 2017 ∞ oct 11 2023 +
- amandine renard
- anastasia ivanova
- anna selezneva
- antonina vasylchenko
- aya jones
- avery blanchard
- barbara palvin
- birgit kos
- blanca padilla
- blesnya minher
- bregje heinen
- cong he
- damaris goddrie
- daniela braga
- emm arruda
- emma laird
- esther heech
- frida gustavsson
- georgie hobday
- heloise giraud
- imaan hammam
dec 10 2016 ∞ sep 14 2017 +
weekday
- instant oatmeal with fruit
- muffins from mix
- peanut butter and banana toast
- cereal or granola with milk
- breakfast bowl with egg, black bean, salsa, corn
- corn tortillas with egg and cheese
- wheat toast with peanut butter
- to pre-make
oct 13 2016 ∞ dec 28 2017 +
sep 25 2016 ∞ nov 13 2016 +
aug 26
- speaking coherently at the media board meeting
- taking senior seminar
- organizing premier fair table and schedule
- taking time to do class readings for several hours every day
- sitting down to write and getting it done
- emailing my professors
- speaking up in class
nov 17
- completing the first draft of my senior seminar paper
- staying on schedule with all my deadlines
- learning a lot about poetry in independent study
- doing really well on all my tests so far
aug 26 2016 ∞ nov 17 2016 +
- bird bath
- hummingbird feeder
- copious indoor plants: ferns, peace lilies, aloe, golden pothos, daisies, mums
- chive and mint plants for windowsills
- enormous puffy white comforter
- coffee and jasmine scented candles
- teapot
- handmade soaps from whole foods
- gold-rimmed mirrors
jul 24 2016 ∞ jul 24 2016 +
- uk
- american pie shower jelly
- think pink bath bomb
- flowering tea bubble bar
- dear john bubble bar
- flying saucers bubble bar
- ooh la la soap
- iced wine shower jelly
- turkish delight roulade shower smoothie
- blueberry roulade shower jelly
- emperor of ice cream buttercream
- business time massage bar
- usa
- sex bomb bath bomb
- twilight bath bomb
- honey bee bath bomb
- the experimenter bath bomb
- milky bath bubble bar
- rose jam bubbleroon
jun 14 2016 ∞ jun 14 2016 +
mar 2 2016 ∞ mar 2 2016 +
- national mall
- sculpture garden
- white house
- capitol building
- lincoln memorial
- washington monument
- vietnam veterans memorial
- korean war veterans memorial
- ford theater
- united states botanic garden
- museums
- national gallery of art
- smithsonian american art museum
- museum of natural history
- national zoological park
- holocaust memorial museum
- international spy museum
- newseum
- museum of the american indian
- national portrait gallery
feb 25 2016 ∞ feb 25 2016 +
- hot knife - fiona apple
- ifhy - tyler the creator
- old money - lana del rey
- i wanna be yours - arctic monkeys
- paris is burning - st. vincent
- two cousins - slow club
- night time my time - sky ferreira
- most wanted - cults
- lights out - santigold
- death to los campesinos - los campesinos
- other people - beach house
- born to die - lana del rey
- piledriver waltz - alex turner
- circus - britney spears
- nuclear seasons - charli xcx
- lust for life - girls
- heart-shaped box - nirvana
- west coast - coconut records
feb 20 2016 ∞ feb 3 2017 +
- perfectionist / meticulous
- independent
- reliable
- observant
- dwelling on the past
- over-thinking
- logical / analytical
- good at researching
- sometimes too critical
- indecisive
- spends time organizing mind
- calm on the outside, buzzing on the inside
feb 16 2016 ∞ feb 16 2016 +
- old slab of concrete in a clearing where a basketball court used to be
- holly bushes in the backyard of my neighbor's house
- overgrown plot of land with rope swing (no longer there)
- the side street still in development where couples park their car at night to make out
- the creek that runs behind everyone's houses
- mossy patch between my house and the woods perfect for making little stone gardens
- remains of an old fence where honeysuckle grows every spring
feb 15 2016 ∞ feb 15 2016 +
- farmacy skincare
- milk makeup
- sugarpill
- melt cosmetics
- violet voss
- morphe, sigma, and zoeva brushes
- gerard cosmetics
- herbivore skincare
- lola's apothecary
- naked princess beauty
- make cosmetics
- nib + fab
- hynt beauty
- eve lom
- follain skincare
- natasha denona
- makeup revolution
- sleek makeup
- winkylux
- kiko milano
feb 9 2016 ∞ feb 22 2016 +
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- hairdresser
- write a novel & get representation/sell it
- squarespace website designer (ilovecreatives course)
- data analyst (Upstate bootcamp course)
- painter
- make a simple app and sell it on the app store
aug 12 2024 ∞ aug 12 2024 +
- collage - especially found poems and adding lyrics to my bujo & journal from cut out magazine letters
- pressed flowers
- framing mementos on pretty fabric
- make a zine?
- reading - more spiritual/philosophical/nature/ecology books mixed in with the fiction
- no buy: shopping my own closet, taking care of what i already own, minimalism, manifesting thrift finds
- look at anthropologie wall art for inspo to try and dupe
apr 22 2024 ∞ apr 22 2024 +
- oldies in my headphones - dreamy 50s ballads or 1960s/70s rock
- movies
- making myself a meal at lunch
- cup of jo articles
- staring out the window, sunlight through the clouds, watching birds
- sips of water and fun drinks
- a little marveling at color and life
- thinking about the book i'm reading or want to read next
- imagining plots for novels i'll write one day
mar 27 2024 ∞ mar 27 2024 +
- learn to live without temporary dopamine hits
- stop being afraid to look dumb or be bad at something
- put my trust in other people
- believe i'm stronger than i think
- get comfortable in the quiet and slowness
- stop living so much in daydreams and plans and future lists
- start now, not later/when i feel like it
mar 11 2024 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- personal responsibility toward climate change and global conflict - whether anything can be done at that level
- internet/digital addiction
- the idea of entering into motherhood and the changes it would bring, internally and externally
- actually making time to write without being a perfectionist about it
- getting the laundry done
- compromise
- crying when i'm angry during disagreements
- taking on the feelings of others and feeling responsible for their happiness/inability to let bad feelings simply be
- health anxiety... googling symptoms
- thinking that next material purchase will fix my entire life
- body image
- following recipes
mar 8 2024 ∞ mar 8 2024 +
- athens, greece
- copenhagen, denmark
- geneva, switzerland
- amalfi coast, italy
- marseilles, france
- budapest, hungary
- amsterdam, the netherlands
- dublin, ireland
- auckland, new zealand
jun 7 2023 ∞ jun 7 2023 +
- read at methodical
- coffee underground
- walk to the park
- walk to cancer survivor's park
- bex w/ book
- m. judson w/ journal
- sully's
- village grind
- kuka juice
- maple street biscuit
- starbucks hyatt
- tropical grille
- perfect buns
- chickfila window
mar 22 2023 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- unlocked
- coffee underground
- due south
- landmark methodical (afternoons)
- chestnut (afternoons)
- grateful brew
- augusta twenty
- other lands
- spill the beans (weekdays)
jan 2 2023 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- fleet foxes poster above sofa [need to order frame]
- floating magazine shelf by mirror [already ordered]
- darker rug to layer over current one? OR some kind of cover for sofa that doesn't look cheap?
- simplify desk, darker tones
- trade out bookshelf with one at home
- cigar box for markers
- swap cactus lamp with dresser lamp from home
nov 29 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- music and lyrics (2007)
- college (2008)
- the haunting of molly hartley (2008)
- kaboom (2010)
- arcadia lost (2010)
- deep powder (2013)
- kristy (2014)
- lost in the white city (2014)
- a kind of murder (2016)
- the magnificent seven (2016)
- the girl on the train (2016)
- rules don't apply (2016)
- thank you for your service (2017)
- swallow (2019)
- the red sea diving resort (2019)
- cyrano (2021)
- she is love (2023)
nov 2 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- ellis brooklyn vanilla milk
- ranger station
- ffern
- snif
- regime des fleurs
- phlur missing person
- henry rose
- imaginary authors
- malin and goetz strawberry edp
- aerin amber musk
oct 11 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
jul 18 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- fresh strawberries
- sweet cream cheese
- cinnamon
- roasted butternut squash
- sharp cheddar cheese
- peaches & cream
- peanut butter mousse
- massaman curry
- cashews
- pineapple on pizza
- peppermint coffee creamer
- asian slaw
- broccoli cheese soup
- chai
- banana & peanut butter
- goat cheese & roasted tomato
apr 27 2022 ∞ nov 14 2022 +
- weight/resistance (proprioceptive input)
- lifting weights or bodyweight exercises
- weighted blankets and pads
- cuddle
- shake it out
- take a warm bath or use a heating pad/blanket
- try a tracking exercise
- sit comfortably and take a few breaths to relax.
- when ready, begin to slowly look around the room and allow your gaze to land on various objects.
- when it does so, name the object out loud.
- if you find an object that particularly appeals to you, linger on it for a while.
- repeat until you feel calm and ready to stop.
feb 2 2022 ∞ feb 2 2022 +
- 30 - adele
- star-crossed - kacey musgraves
- new skin - verite
- black coffee - delacey
- red (taylor's version) - taylor swift
- shore - fleet foxes
- solar power - lorde
- cape god - allie x
- superstar - caroline rose
nov 26 2021 ∞ nov 26 2021 +
nov 2 2021 ∞ nov 2 2021 +
- beach house
- mgmt
- maggie rogers
- tennis
- florence + the machine
- lennon stella
- lorde
- taylor swift
- aly & aj
- kacey musgraves
- olivia rodrigo
- madison beer
- gracie abrams
may 13 2021 ∞ dec 30 2023 +
- having my own desk
- my morning coffee in my special mug
- going to meetings and sitting among people and feeling part of a team
- saying hi to people in the morning
- singing in the car to & from work
- my bullet journal next to me at my desk and crossing things off
- taking lunch and going somewhere fun to have a break
- making new friends and having bonds with my new coworkers
- coming home and feeling turned off from work
- a morning routine
- a cool hip feeling office that makes everything feel more cool
- office parties
- zoning in on a task with my headphones on
- desk plants
may 2 2021 ∞ may 2 2021 +
- curious
- open
- hopeful
- aimless
- tender
- warm
- unsettled
- finding center
feb 10 2021 ∞ feb 10 2021 +
- blue is the warmest color
- almost famous
- black swan
- the girl with the dragon tattoo
- serendipity
- weepah way for now
- you've got mail
- pride & prejudice
- the virgin suicides
- little women
- arrival
- ferris bueller’s day off
- frances ha
- a cinderella story
- swallow
- scott pilgrim vs. the world
dec 24 2020 ∞ jun 28 2021 +
- dedcool - taunt
- maison margiela - jazz club
- le labo - another 13
- giorgio armani - si fiori
- jo malone - mimosa & cardamom
- chloe - nomade absolu
- ariana grande - thank u, next
- miller harris - lost in the city
jun 27 2020 ∞ feb 10 2021 +
- make peanut butter banana oat bars
- start a short story!!
- drop off father's day gift
- go journal and lunch at paris mountain
- saturday morning coffee
- ship tennis skirt depop order
- explore job openings
- tarot reading
jun 19 2020 ∞ jun 19 2020 +
- dublin
- london
- madrid/zach's old home
- marseille
- switzerland
- milan, venice, bologna, florence, rome, naples, palermo
- athens
- montenegro
- budapest
- vienna
- munich, frankfurt, (berlin?)
- brussels
- amsterdam
jun 14 2020 ∞ jun 14 2020 +
- moon juice
- cap beauty
- golde
- rainbo
- seed
- the nue co.
jan 24 2020 ∞ jan 24 2020 +
- an education
- pirate radio
- god help the girl
- a single man
- inside llewyn davis
- ginger & rosa
- factory girl
sep 14 2018 ∞ aug 17 2021 +
- writing in my journal
- baking/cooking a recipe
- cleaning my apartment
- doing the dishes
- doing laundry
- crossing items off my to-do list at work
- becoming immersed in a book
- going to the movie theater
- doing something meaningful with a close person
aug 5 2018 ∞ aug 5 2018 +
what is it?
- specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, time-limited
- should be positive - whatever you focus on should increase rather than decrease (e.g. "get 2 hours more sleep each night" instead of "stop staying up late")
some of mine:
- make a tangible creative effort every day
- think more often of things i'm grateful for
- practice healthy communication when upset
- think realistically rather than negatively/paranoid/irrational
jul 16 2018 ∞ jul 16 2018 +
- three types of thoughts that are good to try and reframe: limiting thoughts ("i'm not good enough"), wishing something were better/feeling like you're missing out, specific problem areas (wanting to lose weight etc)
- "events or situations do not have inherent meaning; rather, you assign them a meaning based on how you interpret the event."
- examine the assumptions that frame your perception of a situation (e.g. "i'll never get a promotion because i don't suck up at work" assumes only suck-ups get promoted)
- "irrational core beliefs that lead to self-defeating thoughts, emotions and actions."
- once you notice your negative thought, reframe it with one of these techniques:
may 2 2018 ∞ may 2 2018 +
sep 5 2017 ∞ mar 7 2019 +
- conan gray videos (as well as other artistic youtubers showing journaling pages, painting processes, art portfolios, pencil case contents)
- tennis (the band)
- lorde and her album melodrama and vevo electric lady recording sessions
- doing yoga with adriene videos on my back deck
- watercolor painting
- collaging
- house of cards
- big glasses of ice water
- almond milk
aug 17 2017 ∞ sep 1 2017 +
- meditating on the beach
- farmer's market peaches
- cracki records label on bandcamp
- palo alto score by devonte hynes
- denim short shorts
- musky sentimental abercrombie & fitch fragrance samples
- prairie blouses (high neck, ruffles)
- the woman warrior by maxine hong kingston
- poetry foundation random poems
- putting milk in coffee instead of creamer and using biscotti
jul 26 2017 ∞ jul 26 2017 +
southern om
- hot yoga only, always a lot of people there, more upbeat music playing during sessions, encouraging and helpful teachers
bk yoga
- very small groups, sometimes even just 2 or 3, smaller studio, good for hot yoga, slower pace and more about relaxation than working out, very experienced teachers
greenville yoga
- big windows and lots of light, good for regular yoga, very focused on peace and self-love, medium-sized classes with a good mix of people, calming and soothing teachers
quest brewery hatha & hops
- good group of people, calm vibe with no pressure, teacher a little weird and touch...
jul 25 2017 ∞ jul 25 2017 +
- the runaways (2010)
- the good doctor (2011)
- jack & diane (2012)
- magic mike (2012)
- kiss of the damned (2012)
- yellow (2012)
- dixieland (2015)
- mad max: fury road (2015)
- the girlfriend experience [tv series] (2015)
- american honey (2016)
- lovesong (2016)
- the discovery (2017)
- we don't belong here (2017)
- it comes at night (2017)
- happy valley [tv movie] (2017)
- under the silver lake (2017)
- logan lucky (2017)
- welcome the stranger (2017)
- the house that jack built (2018)
- hold the dark (2018)
jul 7 2017 ∞ apr 12 2018 +
mar 12 2017 ∞ mar 12 2017 +
nov 21 2016 ∞ nov 21 2016 +
- rosamund pike as hedda gabler
- benedict cumberbatch as george tesman
- oscar isaac as hamlet
- tavi gevinson as mary warren
- james mcavoy as macbeth
- tom hiddleston as coriolanus
- benedict cumberbatch as hamlet
- jessica chastain as salome
oct 22 2016 ∞ dec 21 2016 +
- hot cocoa with fat marshmallows
- evening fires and tv shows
- baths with bubbles and shimmer and lovely scents
- carving a pumpkin for the porch
- roasted root vegetables with olive oil
- slippers and thick sweaters
- music with acoustic guitars and glowy voices
- long drives on the highway with the trees turning orange
- homework in the library in the gold afternoon
- pulling the comforter up to your nose
- tea and pancakes on saturday morning
- knee high boots
- a slice of pie after dinner
oct 11 2016 ∞ oct 11 2016 +
- dark, bold lips + glitter and gloss
- lush lashes (with primer) and delicate shadow
- illuminated skin - natural all-over glow, no strip of glittery highlight
- androdygnous hair - finger curls, deep parts, minimal ponytails, no flowing center-parted waves
- graphic black liner
- decadent, elaborate hair accessories
- the perfect nude mlbb
sep 9 2016 ∞ sep 9 2016 +
- prep (2005)-
- the man of my dreams (2006)-
- american wife (2008)
- sisterland (2013)-
- eligible (2016)
aug 26 2016 ∞ aug 26 2016 +
- nymphomaniac vol. 1 & 2 (2013)
- tale of tales (2015)
- the lady in the car with glasses and a gun (2015)
- taj mahal (2015)
- the childhood of a leader (2015)
- high-rise (2015)
- winter (2015)
- the last photograph (2017)
- rosy (2017)
- borough park (2017)
- redoubtable (2017)
- 3 way junction (2017)
- vox lux (2018)
- the bell jar (2018)
jul 24 2016 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
(not including museums in dc)
- metropolitan museum of art (new york, ny): american, egyptian, ancient greek and roman, medieval, arms and armor, oceana and the americas, modern and contemporary, islamic
- guggenheim (new york, ny): modern and contemporary
- museum of modern art (new york, ny): modern and contemporary
- los angeles county museum of art (los angeles, ca): ancient to contemporary
- the getty museum (los angeles, ca): large museum complex, art periods divided between buildings, architecture
- art institute of chicago (chicago, il): ancient to contemporary
- museum of fine arts (boston, ma): impressionists, decorative arts, classic american art
- museum of fine arts (houston, tx): world culture, 18th century, renaissance
- philadelphia museum of art (philadelphia, pa): all major periods and styles, modern emphasis
- san francisco museum of modern art (san francisco, ca): 20th century art including photography
feb 25 2016 ∞ feb 25 2016 +
aiming to delete as many as possible
- facebook
- twitter
- tumblr
- instagram
- snapchat
- yikyak
- pinterest
- reddit
- tiktok
feb 19 2016 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- american vogue
- interview
- W
- i-D
- paper
- british vogue
- dazed
- l'officiel
- numero
- oyster
- another
- jalouse
- elle
- wonderland
- supplement
feb 15 2016 ∞ jul 2 2016 +
- confessions of a teenage drama queen
- national treasure
- splash
- black swan
- nymphomaniac
- somewhere
- the sisterhood of the traveling pants
- the girl with the dragon tattoo
- martha marcy may marlene
- jane eyre
- penelope
- the sisterhood of night
- ex machina
feb 14 2016 ∞ sep 20 2016 +
feb 4 2016 ∞ feb 4 2016 +
- at a sushi restaurant
- in a parked car at night with the seat reclined and listening to my favorite songs
- walking into class and elegantly shedding my coat
- sitting on a folding chair at the beach with the sun setting and glinting off the waves and wet sand
- in a coffee shop on a rainy day writing a short story that i feel good about
- snuggled in my warm bed hours before i have to wake up scrolling through my phone in pale morning light
- shopping in glossy fancy shops in paris or london
- alone in an apartment of my own feeling a little lonely and a little powerful
- taking off my makeup at the end of the day splashing warm water on my face knowing it is quiet and dark outside
jan 31 2016 ∞ jan 31 2016 +
- homemade black bean hummus and warm pita
- granola and milk
- cashews/almonds and cheddar/mozzarella cheese
- apple and cheddar quesadilla
- cream cheese, ham, tortilla rounds
- diced avocado and salsa
- baked cheddar and bean dip tortilla roll-ups
- canned chickpeas baked with olive oil, paprika, and cumin
- peanut butter, strawberry, and honey on cracker
- fold-overs
- jam and cream cheese: roll out refrigerated pizza dough to 1/4 inch thick; cut into 3-inch rounds. top with a dollop each of cream cheese and jam. brush the edges with beaten egg, fold in half and press to seal. brush with egg and sprinkle with s...
feb 2 2016 ∞ mar 1 2017 +
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- mop the floor
- overhead light > ceiling fan?
- different bookshelf/storage shelf (white wire?)
- new "coffee table" something without glass
- nicer little table
- get rid of the old fire box
- repurpose cute small wood table - plant?
aug 16 2024 ∞ aug 16 2024 +
- fatal attraction
- blue velvet
- basic instinct
- jagged edge
- damage
- cruel intentions
- eyes wide shut
- body heat
jun 30 2024 ∞ jun 30 2024 +
- book dinner reservation
- asheville hotel reservation
- westin reservation
- hair accessories
- shoes
- setting spray & new black eyeliner
- hair styling appointment in asheville
- earrings
apr 22 2024 ∞ apr 22 2024 +
- walk at the nature park
- go to the farmer's market
- shop local boutiques
- write, paint, make
- work in the yard and make the backyard nice
- tidy and declutter
- bake something healthy
- go to hot yoga
apr 3 2024 ∞ apr 3 2024 +
- get rid of gray sofa (somehow) - replace with chair from living room and bookshelf from tina - buy new recliner for living room
- new tapestry/art to replace orange & white one
- clean off/redecorate floating shelves
- massive cleanout of sweaters - use more of that shelving for art supplies
- ways to make bedroom cozier?? art, decor, lighting, mood... gauzy curtains?
- tooootally refresh the backyard! clean up under windows, plant bushes, get pavers, trash/use up stick pile in bonfires, fire pit, make deck nicer
- donate extra pillows from guest bed
- paint wood of bathroom shelving white
- new bookshelf: move perfumes to display on top (cute cards/letters in hanging shelf?), keep sheets or towels in baskets on the bookshelf?
mar 11 2024 ∞ mar 11 2024 +
- had dim sum with my best friend
- cooked two delicious pasta dishes at home
- super productive work meeting
- drank a lot of LMNT (but somehow don't feel like i hydrated enough...)
- journaled before work at a coffee shop 2x
- ate good baguette with jam and butter
- read outside in the sun during my lunch break
- ordered perfume samples on luckyscent
mar 8 2024 ∞ mar 8 2024 +
- bad times at the el royale
- the nice guys
- once upon a time... in hollywood
- 20th century women
- almost famous
- american hustle
- inherent vice
- the runaways
- dazed and confused
- lovelace
jan 7 2024 ∞ jan 7 2024 +
- become a regular at a local coffee shop
- take a blanket to the park on a summer day
- give someone a compliment
- find a positive online forum/community to participate in
- pick up a communal hobby (knitting, board games, dnd, art class)
- learn to play pickleball
jun 28 2023 ∞ dec 5 2023 +
- you hurt my feelings
- past lives
- asteroid city
- barbie
- indiana jones and the dial of destiny
- earth mama
- oppenheimer
- talk to me
may 28 2023 ∞ may 28 2023 +
- no expectations
- always wear socks
- amy's canned soups
- humidifier
- binge comfort shows
- upbeat positive music
- cute little novels
- youtube
- lots of hot chocolate
- make lots of plans - things to look fwd to
- nintendo switch
feb 14 2023 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
dec 12 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- liz claiborne - liz sunrise
- hilary duff - with love
- ralph lauren - blue
- ralph lauren - ralph rocks
- aerie - whoa!!
nov 19 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
ON THE SCENE Give a recent scene report, either from a momentous occasion or regular haunt.
- scene: on the side of an appalachian mountain, sitting in soft long dry grass next to my partner, tall grass all around us and the trail slicing through, a pause next to a trickling pond along the creek, eating mixed nuts and drinking cold creek water from the filter straw
CIRCLE OF CONFIDANTS Who is currently comprising your inner circle?
- IRL friends, partner, a few URL people
CAMERA ROLL Look through recent photos. Identify one that feels best representative of the last month.
- reading on the porch with hot tea and new soft jeans on
GRIPPING What deeply captured your full a...
nov 2 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
- malcolm & marie
- the world to come
- holler
- summer of 85
- zola
- blue bayou
- last night in soho
- spencer
- tenet
- never rarely sometimes always
- on the rocks
may 23 2022 ∞ feb 14 2023 +
Detox Mode: What in your current world is feeling stale, done, and/or ready to reset?
- social media discourse, cheap clothes for temporary fulfillment, "wellness rituals" and "self improvement," scrolling indeed
Microdose: What are you dabbling in (or perhaps where would you LIKE to dabble?)
- adult coloring books, herbalism and learning about the nervous/adrenal system, little paintings made for no one but myself
Soup Season: Cite a newly discovered source of comfort — be it physical or emotional.
- lazy mornings lying in the bed for a few hours, tumblr and nostalgia for the old internet
On Belay: Identify where you are needing ...
feb 8 2022 ∞ feb 8 2022 +
- begin again
- before we go
- lady bird
- lost in translation
- the perks of being a wallflower
- the spectacular now
- moonrise kingdom
- two-bit waltz
- me and earl and the dying girl
- the way way back
- the art of getting by
- it's kind of a funny story
- mistress america
nov 4 2021 ∞ nov 4 2021 +
- crimson peak
- a dangerous method
- jane eyre
- ex machina
- shame
- call me by your name
- nymphomaniac
- the man from u.n.c.l.e.
- american beauty
- stoker
jun 28 2021 ∞ jan 18 2022 +
- not waving but drowning (2012)
- the kings of summer (2013)
- gibsonburg (2013)
- miss stevens (2016)
- galveston (2018)
- hustlers (2019)
- chemical hearts (2020)
- plus/minus (in production)
may 4 2021 ∞ nov 2 2021 +
- curtis sittenfeld
- jeffrey eugenides
- stephanie danler
- celeste ng
- emma cline
- e. lockhart
feb 10 2021 ∞ feb 10 2021 +
- analog
- slow
- simple
- present
- manifest
- nourish
- intentional
- advocate
- communicate
- immerse
- devour
- savor
- still
dec 26 2020 ∞ dec 26 2020 +
- learn to code/design
- tune in (meditate)
- write
- clean/organize
- cook
- explore nature
- read fiction
- read informational writing
- go on daily walk
- make a podcast
- go to a cafe
- do a crossword
- work on a puzzle
- hike or go to a mountain
- sit and stare at the sky
- journal
- drive and listen to music
oct 12 2020 ∞ oct 12 2020 +
- black tea with no sugar, pump of raspberry and splenda
- iced blonde americano
- black tea with lemonade + mango dragonfruit refresher
- green tea latte + almond milk, a scoop of matcha, and 3 pumps of sugar free vanilla syrup
- grande cold brew + white mocha, sugar free vanilla syrup, half & half
- vanilla cold foam cold brew
- vanilla sweet cream cold brew
- iced matcha with lemonade
- iced coffee with coconut milk and cinnamon dolce
- pink drink with light ice
aug 6 2020 ∞ aug 6 2020 +
- wilmington/outer banks, NC
- washington, DC
- philadelphia, PN
- new york, NY
- providence, RI
- boston, MA
- vermont, maine, montreal, toronto
- nashville, TN
- austin, TX
- el paso, TX
- albuquerque, NM
- phoenix, AZ
- utah national forests
- LA, san jose
- eugene, portland
- seattle, WA
- vancouver
jun 19 2020 ∞ jun 19 2020 +
- i didn't know - skinshape
- barrie - dark tropical
- beach house - ppp
- beach house - other people
- alaska - maggie rogers
- natural state - cults
- for what it's worth - buffalo springfield
- siberian breaks - mgmt
- hot coals - edward sharpe & the magnetic zeroes
- better - maggie rogers
- truth - alex ebert
- when the party's over - billie eilish
- ribs - lorde
- new years day - taylor swift
- venice bitch - lana del rey
- slow burn - kacey musgraves
- meet me in the hallway - harry styles
- modern woman - tennis
- SOS - ABBA
may 25 2020 ∞ jun 23 2020 +
- keep my space clean & inviting
- do chores regularly
- make writing a habit
- don't spend too much time on the phone
- live slowly instead of chasing instant gratification
- use up the groceries i buy
- try to live sustainably - reusable items vs. single-use plastic
- initiate time with friends
- protect my heart
- not overextend myself
jul 17 2019 ∞ jul 17 2019 +
- celebrate my birthday in a way that makes me feel good and loved
- take a trip to a new city
- master one really good dinner recipe that i can cook on my own
- host a party at my apartment
- cook more meals in a week than i eat out
- put money in savings from every paycheck
- send out at least 2 short stories
- complete at least 5 short stories
aug 5 2018 ∞ aug 5 2018 +
- a guy walking down the hall in front of me holding the elevator because he knew i was there
- a girl outside the cafe taking pictures of the birds and trying to get them mid-flight, and then taking pictures of her canned drink, twisting the can a little to get the right angle
- the overpriced handmade mixed berry gourmet poptart i finally treated myself to buying today, and my routine favorite diet lemonade
- a girl with grass green hair
- the fab 5 from queer eye and how kind, vulnerable, and loving they are
aug 5 2018 ∞ aug 5 2018 +
for a boy:
- brandon
- james
- ben
- andrew
- theodore/theo/teddy
for a girl:
- elizabeth
- keira
- india
- joy
may 2 2018 ∞ jun 7 2018 +
- was it intentional? - look at it from the other person's perspective, is it clear that they meant to hurt you, or could it be an accident?
- what am i feeling? - am i purely reacting to their behavior, or did it tap something internal, like doubts of self-worth, or fear, or embarrassment/shame?
- what's really going on? - once you identify your true emotion, examine why you are feeling it, did their behavior merely trigger something you've already been dwelling on?
- where's the relief? - what do you need to help this feeling? alone time, distraction through a movie or activity, time with friends who will cheer you up? don't be afraid to ask a friend for help or let them know you're having a hard time
- how can i prevent it from happening again? - trust your relationships enough to be...
apr 12 2018 ∞ apr 12 2018 +
- get to and maintain 125 lbs
- write intros ahead consistently
- watch movies i haven't seen (from my list) instead of just old favorites
- try new restaurants and bars (make a list)
- move out into my own place
dec 10 2017 ∞ dec 10 2017 +
- ginger candies
- lavender essential oil
- eat vitamin c-rich foods before (citrus fruits, broccoli, red peppers) of foods with probiotics (yogurt, blueberries)
- get electrolytes by bringing water and healthy snacks like banana, coconut water, greens
- sleeping mask
- go to the gym or yoga before an afternoon flight
aug 17 2017 ∞ aug 17 2017 +
usa site
- sleepy - hand and body lotion
- scrubee - exfoliating body butter
uk site
- rose jam - body spray
- green coconut - jelly bomb
jul 27 2017 ∞ jul 27 2017 +
- strawberry + lime + cucumber
- strawberry + orange + mint
- orange + blueberry
- honeydew + raspberry
- lemon + strawberry + rosemary
- watermelon + basil
- pineapple + mint
- cherry + lime
jul 23 2017 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
- bed, bath, and beyond - short (1996)
- lick the star (1998)
- the virgin suicides (1999)
- un matin partout dans le monde - tv short (2000)
- lost in translation (2003)
- VOID - segment (2005)
- marie antoinette (2006)
- somewhere (2010)
- the bling ring (2013)
- a very murray christmas (2015)
- the beguiled (2017)
mar 12 2017 ∞ jul 7 2017 +
- elle fanning
- christie tyler (nycbambi)
- lana del rey
- jenny slate
- haley bennett
- phoebe tonkin
- dasha kim (dayeshka)
- jane birkin
nov 25 2016 ∞ aug 15 2017 +
- diorskin nude air
- ✔ tarte rainforest of the sea
- marc jacobs remarcable foundation concentrate
- make up for ever water blend
- smashbox studio skin
- bobbi brown skin foundation
- diorskin forever
- lancome teint idole 24h
- kevyn aucoin sensual skin enhancer
- nars all day luminous weightless foundation
- it cosmetics cc+ veil beauty fluid foundation
- bareminerals complextion rescue tinted hydrating gel cream
- bobbi brown bb cream
- laura mercier tinted moisturizer
- koh gen do aqua foundation
- clinique beyond perfecting
oct 25 2016 ∞ jun 25 2017 +
- mini packets of pistachios/cashews/almonds
- mini boxes of raisins
- breakfast bars (fiber one peanut butter, nature valley fruit and nut/sweet and salty)
- apples, bananas, grapes, strawberries
- pudding, jello, applesauce, yogurt
- sabra honey mustard spread
- lemon
- simply protein bars
- black beans
- canned corn
- corn tortillas
oct 13 2016 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
sep 25 2016 ∞ jan 7 2017 +
- adventure time
- powerpuff girls (2016)
- steven universe
- we bare bears
- samurai jack
aug 1 2016 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
apr 3 2016 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
- pure (2009)
- the crown jewels (2011)
- a royal affair (2012)
- anna karenina (2012)
- the fifth estate (2013)
- hotel (2013)
- testament of youth (2014)
- son of a gun (2014)
- seventh son (2014)
- ex machina (2015)
- the man from u.n.c.l.e. (2015)
- the danish girl (2015)
- burnt (2015)
- jason bourne (2016)
- the light between oceans (2016)
- submergence (2017)
- euphoria (2017)
- tulip fever (2017)
- tomb raider (2018)
feb 29 2016 ∞ oct 30 2016 +
- fresh tinted lip balm
- burberry
- cashmere soft matte foundation
- eye colour cream
- chanel
- rouge coco shine
- long wear luminous matte eyeshadow
- le volume de chanel mascara
- perfection lumiere velvet foundation
- charlotte tilbury
- film star bronze & glow
- eyes to mesmerize cream shadow
- the dolce vita palette
- the spy who loved me palette
- cheek to chic blush
- light wonder foundation
- bar of gold highlighter
- yves saint laurent
feb 24 2016 ∞ feb 24 2016 +
- ✔ perfecting skin tint
- ✔ moon mask
- greens mask
- coconut balm dot com
- ✔ generation g
- rosewater spray
- quartz haloscope
- ✔ moonstone haloscope
feb 19 2016 ∞ jul 23 2017 +
- jane eyre + mr. rochester
- elizabeth bennett + mr. darcy
- joe + jerome
- lana kane + sterling archer
- penelope + johnny
- veronica mars + logan echolls
- james bond + vesper lynd
- freddie mcclair + effy stonem
- cher horowitz + josh lucas
- thumbelina + cornelius
- beauty + the beast
- nick miller + jess day
- gaby teller + ilya kuryakin
- joe fox + kathleen kelly
- rebecca bloomwood + luke brandon
feb 14 2016 ∞ mar 6 2017 +
- elizabeth and james nirvana black (sweet, musky, rich, caramel-y, reminds me of the holidays)
- chanel chance eau fraiche and eau tendre (bright and girly and clean)
- givenchy ysatis (old-fashioned, powdery, and nostalgic)
- miu miu miu miu (floral with a hint of spice, the perfect sweet scent with a little duskiness and sensuality)
- guerlain la petite robe noire
- yves saint laurent black opium (rich and sweet and heavy)
- chloe chloe eau de parfum (creamy fresh flowers)
- olivine she belongs there (honeysuckle)
- olivine olivine
- elizabeth and james nirvana rose (sweet carnal musk)
- tom ford velvet orchid (rich velvety smoky mature flowers)
feb 5 2016 ∞ aug 15 2017 +
- cheek/lip biting
- coming home and getting right in bed
- scrolling mindlessly on my phone
- letting my mind drift in class
- looking at my phone while driving
- starting art projects and never finishing them
- online shopping
- negative thinking/self-talk
- being judgmental towards others
feb 2 2016 ∞ feb 2 2016 +
this is a cute topic! i used the random generator.
- dreamly: a very beautiful and simple dream journaling app with a space to title, describe, and doodle your dreams. the design is so lovely.
- imoodjournal: the simplest and most helpful mood tracker i have found. you rate your mood on a scale of i think "awful" to "great" and then you can write a little note and attach a picture if you want. it adds your rating to a bar graph that makes it super easy to see your mood changes over time. and it makes graphs with the line of best fit to show your mood trends-- on which days you tend to have high or low moods, etc. and average ratings for the day/week/month.
- vsco: the ultimate photo editing app. makes your photos look like an urban outfitters photoshoot. a little annoying and hip...
dec 26 2015 ∞ dec 26 2015 +
dec 18 2015 ∞ oct 30 2016 +
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