• writing in cursive
• "tell me about..."
• putting your hair up
• feeling sexy without showing a ton of skin
• farmers' tans from sports gear or outdoor activities
• texture & patina
• citing your sources
• dressing well for travel
• ironing, hand washing, hanging dry
• not everything being name brand - the bathroom not looking like a Sephora
• mental math
• having "a guy" (a go-to service provider)
• putting out snacks before dinner
• adding to a conversation without interrupting
• weeknight dates/plans
• being a good listener
• having a soothing voice
• not following fake fashion rules (white after labor day, black and navy/black and brown, mixing metals)

things

• socks that are the perfect height with sneakers
• perfectly matted pictures
• silver picture frames
• spa water
• personalized stationery
• a well-stocked travel toiletries bag
• very small embroidered monograms
• natural fibers
• swimming laps as cardio (a thing because it requires pool access)