 
     when you fall in the deepest shit called love -
  
    - always remember:
      
        - he might not love you as much as you will love him 
- he won't give you "everything" as much as you plan to give him your "everything" 
- one day, he might fall out of love 
- and you too, can fall out of love and find all of your stupidity the most disgusting thing ever 
 
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  so you should ⇣
  
    - try not to:
      
        - dedicate a letter for him 
- write wonderful thoughts about him (diary is the only exception) 
- think he rules your world and he is the center of everything because he is not; and you are definitely NOT the center of his universe either! 
- get jealous too much- it's not worth the emotional effort, i swear 
- think of marrying him, cause most probably he won't think of these things too- you might get hurt thinking of one-sided long-term plans 
 
- never give:
      
        - your most valuable items - you might just regret it again 
- the most expensive items - are you sure he's worth it? maybe not 
 
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  Keep this in mind, and don't be stupid- again
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  If you realize he is worth it after 6-12months, then by all means, do the opposite.