• compassion -- same as tolerance
  • getting really fancy presents for someone i don't know that well -- it makes them feel uneasy
  • independence -- i can't rely on others for anything emotionally, and it leaves me feeling very stifled and lonely
  • private -- this developed bc i don't want anyone to emotionally tampon on me, but i'm often guarded.
  • sweet -- sometimes i feel like i have a milquetoast personality or people don't want to be around me because i'm one note.
  • the urge for reciprocity -- when i do something for others i expect it done back,and when it's not, i take that into account
  • tolerance -- sometimes i feel like this emits an energy for people to emotionally tampon on me
  • veganism -- i like to talk about it, but only with other vegans, bc i don't want to hear the carnist's excuses
  • witty/ funny -- this developed as a defense mechanism for constantly being called out for being weird/ creepy, but now it feels like a guard for anyone to know who i truly am
sep 4 2016 ∞
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