- immediate suspicion at the beginning of a connection (are they talking to you out of pity, humor, angst, are they irritated because they wanted the hot girl and they had to settle for your attention?)
- it's difficult to get any of your physical, relational, romantic needs met, so you might meet them on your own through maladaptive coping mechanisms (pornography)
- kindness seems like it can be part of a manipulation
- no one buys you drinks - or they'll say they will and then don't do it.
- people make sexual advances/ flirt as a practical joke.
- people may develop romantic feelings for you, but then reject because of how those feelings developed.
- people project negative qualities onto you, and when you want to be alone they call you out for upsetting the social balance
- social functions are tense
- you always have to make the first move
- you have a small wardrobe
oct 18 2021 ∞
nov 2 2021 +