- all the bs my mother said was true
- i can trust my own version of events and reclaim my power back
- i can't feel safe 100% of the time
- i might be single for the rest of my life
- i'm unlovable because i'm imperfect
- my relationships can fail even if i am a good person
- others won't like me even though i'm a good person
- someone will stay even if i express a negative emotion
- the unfair treatment happened in a situation that i couldn't control (circumstance)
- the unfair treatment may not have been personal
- there's safety (and laziness) i the victim mentality. i don't need the self confidence to call them out. in fact i don't think about it and i take their version as the truth
jan 14 2017 ∞
feb 12 2017 +