- "i like bougie activities" -- completely different value system
- "i like to travel/ passports needed" - reeks of classcism and poverty shaming. not everyone can travel and doesn't determine the worth and value of the friendship. looking more for a travel partner.
- "i want friends under 40" - i'm over 40.
- "now that i'm too old for the club, i like brunch and travel" - as someone who's more invested in activities, interests aren't as important in spending time with others.
- aquarius north nodes - as a leo sun, i'm not the right person in this lfietime
- low maintanence friends/ meme friends/ text friends - not what i'm looking for in friendship.
- mentions a man in the first three sentences (boy mom, wife, fiancee, respect my relationship) - male identified, likely uses the relationship or association as a source of superiority.
- picky about maintainence (doesn't want friends if they go more than 4 weeks without beauty maintanence) -- I can go for more than a month without getting hair, nails, feet, brows done. beauty involvement isn't a large part of my personality
- religious - raised in a secular environment, incompatibility
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