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- ask why their family treats strangers better than them
- compare their treatment to that of other family members
- don't engage in petty arguments
- don't let family divert the blame
- end the conversation
- set firm boundaries
- take time to think about everything that's been said
- talk about being invalidated
- trust their own version of family history
- won't accept blame of the other person won't accept responsibility
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