listography: observations (how to shut down manipulators )

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*Teacher
*Traveler
*Writer

listography	NEWS
a ~	travel (current daydreams)
honeybee	people (coolest famous people I’ve met)
shug avery	twenty 20 five. (five things.)
felipe	movies (watched for the 1st time in 2025)

Andreea	Zuzanna
AngHell	a ~
Apartmentcat	ava
Evelyn	baba yaga
Faerie Queen	chagak
Hope Brown	chony mony
Kang Seyoung	coffeestains
Lauren	e. joy
Lia	evan
Madeline	felipe
Mel	honeybee
MissS	katemaryj
Oh!	manda
Rubab	marcella
Sara	niv
Sara	shipwrecklips
Veronica	shug avery
Yumi	vioLIST

observations (how to shut down manipulators )

present clear consequences
recognize the red flags quickly
respond, don't react
say 'no' without apologies or explanations
seek support (and don't feel guilty about it)
set and stick to boundaries
take a timeout (mentally and physically)
use the power of 'I' statements

mar 12 2025 ∞
mar 25 2025 +