- based on my experiences it's not my cup of tea
- i don't think it's any better or worse than monogamy
- i don't think most poly ppl have a poly "look" it's just that it's a subculture and they need to signal to others that they're in the subculture (every subculture does this)
- i hate what most people try to do with poly -- in other words, they cheat so they become polymamorous
- i'm mostly not interested in it because it's not relationally oriented
- it's a relational model just like monogamy
- sex feels accelerated (that's generally speaking)
- when operating at the baseline, it doesn't honor men
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