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- acting one way in public and another way in private
- bad temper
- commands and control
- complains about a group you're a part or of a feature you have (complaints about college if you went to college, complaints about poor people if you're poor)
- do a favor that leaves you indebted to them (expensive gifts, a major contribution)
- extremely charming in the beginning
- gaslighting
- jealousy
- light put downs
- non-productive arguing
- unpreditability
- withdrawal of affection if they don't get their way
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