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- arbitrary rules about social media
- avoid labels
- creates emotional distance during conflict suffering
- don't feel welcome to reach out during specific times
- hot sexually, cold emotionally
- intermittent contact
- puts you on an appointment only schedule
- showing up late or blowing off plans at the last minute, specifically for non-sexual activities
- they make plans tossed out into the far future (future faking)
- you have to do all the relationship legwork
dec 15 2020 ∞
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