- i have to figure out if i like them first.
- then figure out if they like me.
- it goes in that order. i have to determine those two things before i do anything drastic for them.
- acts of service make me feel closer to someone, so if i'm not sure how they feel about me, i won't accept them. (i like the offers though)
- do i feel comfortable enough to complain to them? yes, this matters a lot.
- my love language is touch, so if i always want to touch someone, i'm into them. (i don't like touching a lot of people).
- what about them do i dislike? can i manage the dislikeable part?
- how do we feel about each other? i need this answer before i'm physically comfortable with them.
- can the relationship survive with respect? many of relationships fail because they won't thrive in a respectful environment.
- entering a relationship as a mature person is hard
sep 13 2017 ∞
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