• Be yourself
• Engage me in soul-baring, thought-provoking conversation or goofy, lighthearted banter
• Spend time with me
• Really, truly listen when I speak; make me the center of your world for a while
• Encourage me to come out of my shell; ask me direct/personal questions
• Accept me as I am
• Give me a hug or squeeze my hand when I'm tense
• Hold my gaze & smile at me
• Trust me not to hurt you, and immediately tell me if I do
• Tell me about your dreams and hopes
• Show me who you really are, stripped of all pretensions and fears
• Talk to me about things that interest you
• Pay me a sincere compliment
• Write me a meaningful letter
• Be trustworthy
• Express concern for my feelings
• Reassure me
• Surprise me with a thoughtful gesture
• Take me somewhere special/peaceful
• Be visibly glad to see me
• Miss me when I'm not around
• Protect me without being possessive
• If I mean something to you, let me know

x r