Relationship Goals

• He'd have a strong masculine energy that compliments and balances my feminine energy
• He'd be genuinely, authentically himself and have deep spiritual integrity
• He'd love God and the Ahlulbayt (as) with all his heart
• He'd make me feel perfectly safe
• He'd find my uniqueness beautiful, never strange
• He'd express his love often, especially through sweet words and gestures
• He'd be my biggest source of strength and emotional support in tough times
• He'd give me space to pursue my own goals and passions without being threatened or possessive
• He'd be thoughtful, romantic, and sensitive to my needs
• He'd be an amazing, devoted father if we have kids
• I'd never be afraid to be vulnerable or imperfect around him
• I could be totally raw, unfiltered, and wild with him
• I'd be his safe haven and his biggest source of confidence
• I'd make him feel like the most desirable man on earth
• I'd encourage him to pursue his goals & would cheer him on every step of the way
• I'd come up with endless ways to surprise him and make him happy, based on the things he loves & is passionate about
• I'd do my best to love him exactly as he is, no matter his flaws or weaknesses
• I'd never ask him to change for me, but would help him become a better man for his own happiness
• I'd be best friends with his mother & love her like my own
• I'd encourage him to go out with his friends so we could enjoy time apart sometimes
• I'd woo him with my culinary skills
• I'd take him to places that mean the world to me
• We'd be ride-or-die in our commitment to each other, no matter what hardships life may bring
• We'd trust each other unconditionally
• We could share our deepest griefs, regrets, and fears with no fear of judgment
• We'd work out together & he'd teach me how to lift
• We'd have our own independent activities and wouldn't feel a need to constantly orbit each other
• We'd compliment each others' energy like yin and yang
• We'd be open to each others' passions and interests, even if we couldn't immediately relate
• We'd feel safe talking about anything with each other
• We'd never stop appreciating each other
• We'd have the deepest love and respect for each others' families
• We'd feel comfortable in our own skin around each other
• We'd never let things get stale or boring- we'd come up with ways to spice things up and have fun
• Our relationship would be ruled by faith, passion, trust, empathy, and exploration
• We'd be on a similar spiritual, mental, physical, and emotional wave length, even if our personalities & interests were vastly different
• We'd be mature enough to talk about our issues and face them head on, never against each other
• We'd open up to each other about all the ways we've been broken, and leave all the baggage behind us
• We'd have spontaneous, wild adventures together
• We'd have the kind of marriage that inspires people to believe in love

Ideal Relationship Examples

• Imam Ali (as) and Bibi Fatima (as)
• Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) and Bibi Khadija (as)
• Allamah Tabatabai and his wife
• Dolly Parton and her husband
• Mrs. Hopkins and her husband

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