from Mean Time Love by Anita Ross

When answering each question be as descriptive as possible. Give plenty of examples.

Who

• Who are you in this relationship with? Describe in context of their authentic self.
• Who does this relationship impact?
• Who supports you in this relationship?

Why

• Why are you in this relationship?
  • a. Do you love this person? If so, how do you know?
  • b. Are you able to express yourself fully? If so, how?
  • c. Are your gifts, talents and skills appreciated? If so, how?
  • d. Are you passionate about this relationship? If so, how do you know?

What

• What does your intimate partner look, feel, smell and sound like?
• What types of things do you like to do together?
• What types of things do you like to do apart?
• What do you give to your intimate partner in this relationship?
• What do you receive from your intimate partner in this relationship?

Where

• Where are you in this relationship?
  • a. Do you live close to your intimate partner or is it a long distance relationship?
  • b. If you share the same home, what does it look, feel, smell and sound like?
  • c. Do you have friends and/or family in your vicinity?

When

• When do you see yourself in this relationship or are you currently in it?
• When do you spend time with your intimate partner?
  • a. How many hours a week do you spend with your intimate partner?
  • b. How much time do you spend without your intimate partner (other than when you are at work)?
  • c. How much time do you spend with family and friends?