Found this list randomly in my room... I wonder who came up with it..?

Unsafe People...

• Avoid closeness instead of connecting. | Does this relation create togetherness or more isolation within me? We were created for Intimacy.
• Are only concerned about "I" instead of "We". | Safe People are empathic and act on their empathy.
• Resist freedom instead of encouraging it. | What do they do with my "no"?
• Flatter us instead of confronting us.
• Condemn us instead of forgiving us.
• Stay in Parent/Child roles instead of relating as equals.
• Are unstable over time instead of being consistent.
• Are a negative influence on us, rather than a positive one.
• Gossip instead of keeping secrets.