- always accept a compliment 
 
    - and, dear alyssa, you look beautiful today 
 
    - be refined, polite and well-spoken 
 
    - cover up (because it's better if you do) 
 
    - do everything you do with passion 
 
    - do what you want, when you want, how you want 
 
    - don't complain unless you can change something 
 
    - dress like you're going to see your worst enemy 
 
    - exaggerate your emotions immensely 
 
    - keep in mind that saying, "No," feels good 
 
    - learn to finish what you start 
 
    - listen firstly, secondly, and speak only thirdly 
 
    - love everything you can 
 
    - never be bored 
 
    - never close your eyes; you might miss something 
 
    - never let people dictate you unless you know they know better 
 
    - never stay in one place 
 
    - no one can make you feel inferior without your consent 
 
    - remember assertiveness is attractive, indecisiveness is not 
 
    - remember that all limitations are self imposed 
 
    - remember things that are not can become when you pretend 
 
    - say what you mean and mean what you say 
 
    - scream when you need to, but if a person won't listen unless you speak forcefully, they aren't worth dealing with 
 
    - smile demurely during conversations and dramatically to yourself 
 
    - speak softly and with dramatic hand gestures 
 
  
            sep 1 2011 ∞
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