- Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc): yes. 
 
    - Kissing (mouth): only little pecks. No making out please. 
 
    - Hand holding: not necessarily. 
 
    - Cuddling: on occasion. 
 
    - Hugging: yes. 
 
    - Other affectionate touching: I wouldn't mind. 
 
    - Hugging in public: why not, in a friendly way. 
 
    - Cuddling in public: lol? no. 
 
    - Kissing (forehead, cheek, etc) in public: okay. 
 
    - Kissing (mouth) in public: nah. 
 
    - Hand holding in public: not necessarily. 
 
    - Other affectionate touch in public: nay. 
 
    - Eye gazing: I don't think so. 
 
    - Crying on: yea done it already and his way of comforting me is not really what I want or need to hear XD 
 
    - Being cried on: no problem, but I suck at advices. 
 
    - Massage (giving): yea why not. 
 
    - Massage (receiving): do it please. My back is killing me. 
 
    - Hair brushing (giving): I was going it with my sister, so no big difference for me. 
 
    - Hair brushing (receiving): only if you don't pull much. 
 
    - Nail painting (giving): n/a. 
 
    - Nail painting (receiving): n/a. 
 
    - Shaving (giving): nope, I don't trust my hands XD 
 
    - Shaving (receiving): had it done, it was okay and it's even better than when I do it myself. 
 
    - Bathing together (with bathing suits): we were going to the beach and swimming pools and that felt pretty normal. 
 
    - Bathing together (naked): done it before and it was normal, too. 
 
    - Seeing my partner naked: no problem for me, I got used to it. 
 
    - My partner seeing me naked: no problem either. 
 
    - Feeding my partner: like, buying him food? Yes. Literal feeding? Nope, it's lame. 
 
    - Being fed by my partner: him buying me food - yes, me being literally fed - nope. 
 
    - Tickling (being tickled): nah I'm too ticklish for that. 
 
    - Tickling (doing the tickling): yea I'm cruel. 
 
    - Terms of endearment: nah we both have them. We just jokingly call each other "sweetie". 
 
    - Being called “best friend”: of course. 
 
    - Being called “partner”: of course. 
 
    - Being called romantically-coded words (boyfriend, girlfriend, etc): sure. 
 
    - Me having other platonic partners: no, I wouldn't call it "partners". 
 
    - My partner having other platonic partners: nah. 
 
    - Me having other romantic partners: nope, I'm aro. 
 
    - My partner having other romantic partners: nope, he's aro as well. 
 
    - My partner doing romantic-coded things with someone else: I can't even imagine him doing that XD 
 
    - Me doing romantic-coded things with someone else: again, I'm aro. 
 
    - My partner doing sexual things with someone else: lol no. 
 
    - Me doing sexual things with someone else: nope, I'm ace. 
 
    - Touching my partner sexually: I don't really like it. 
 
    - Being touched by my partner sexually: nope, I don't like it. 
 
    - Having sex of any kind with my partner [specify if yes]: yes, but only for his benefit because he's sexual, I'm not. 
 
    - Sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: no. 
 
    - Non-sexual kink with my partner [specify if yes]: no. 
 
    - “Romantically coded” gifts (flowers, chocolates, etc): wouldn't mind, although it's not necessary. 
 
    - Dancing: neither of us dances. 
 
    - Bed sharing (non-affectionate): sure, we do it and it's normal. 
 
    - Bed sharing (cuddling): on occasion. 
 
    - Tucking my partner in: no? 
 
    - Being tucked in: no? 
 
    - Living together: yeah, we do live together. 
 
    - (Platonic) marriage: yes we are married. 
 
    - Raising children together: only my stepson as my spouse has a child from previous relationship. 
 
    - Having pets together: yeah we have a cat, previously we had two. 
 
  
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